a friend of mine has done a lot of changing recently and I don't like the way she's acting... She's done some pretty stupid things that I won't mention and I don't think that I want to deal with that, but I miss the friends that we used to be?
Anonymous
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Call her out on it.
BREATH NEVER PAUSE YOUR LUNGS!!
hey yes people could make good friends, but hey when they change and begin to act stupid and not the fun and cool person they once used to be then what can we do then no more, if you tried to explain your self to her and she wont care and wont listen, Dont waist your time missing her as a friend she ONCE was. Hey there are other great people out there make new freinds, and do not hate this friend that has changed just remember that she might change back to the way she was, so say hi still to her i would say. Dont loose her if you really do like her
well good times to you :)
beardedaxeaffliction
You should write her a really long letter. Start by telling her how you miss her musk because she sounds like a musky kind of gal. Then list off every word you can think of to describe the female genatalia, this will let her know that she's being a C U Next Tuesday. Then attach a picture of her face, but cover it with fecal matter because then she'll know what a doo-doo head she's been. Then seal it with a kiss. Sprinkle the outside with crystal meth so your friend will think it's a love letter from her drug dealer.
shefairy2000
I have a friend, or should I say "had" a friend for 8 years and during the last 4 of them she tried to kill herself, stole my credit card, my check book and got high while babysitting my kids while my husband and I were working. I haven't seen her since. There are only so many second chances and I let it go on too long. Don't let her treat you wrong. Talk to her and if she responds the way you want her to then great, but don't get taken because you want to be a good friend.
Bill F
Women have a tendency to change over time, a fact that most guys just don't get. You may wind up changing yourself. I know you miss the friendship you used to have, but the dynamics of your relationship have also changed to the point where it doesn't work quite like it used to.
You can talk to her of course, and ask why she does the things she does, but it's unlikely to change anything. Good luck to you.