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What should I do if....?

a friend of mine has done a lot of changing recently and I don't like the way she's acting... She's done some pretty stupid things that I won't mention and I don't think that I want to deal with that, but I miss the friends that we used to be?

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    Call her out on it.

  • hey yes people could make good friends, but hey when they change and begin to act stupid and not the fun and cool person they once used to be then what can we do then no more, if you tried to explain your self to her and she wont care and wont listen, Dont waist your time missing her as a friend she ONCE was. Hey there are other great people out there make new freinds, and do not hate this friend that has changed just remember that she might change back to the way she was, so say hi still to her i would say. Dont loose her if you really do like her

    well good times to you :)

  • You should write her a really long letter. Start by telling her how you miss her musk because she sounds like a musky kind of gal. Then list off every word you can think of to describe the female genatalia, this will let her know that she's being a C U Next Tuesday. Then attach a picture of her face, but cover it with fecal matter because then she'll know what a doo-doo head she's been. Then seal it with a kiss. Sprinkle the outside with crystal meth so your friend will think it's a love letter from her drug dealer.

  • 1 decade ago

    I have a friend, or should I say "had" a friend for 8 years and during the last 4 of them she tried to kill herself, stole my credit card, my check book and got high while babysitting my kids while my husband and I were working. I haven't seen her since. There are only so many second chances and I let it go on too long. Don't let her treat you wrong. Talk to her and if she responds the way you want her to then great, but don't get taken because you want to be a good friend.

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  • Bill F
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    Women have a tendency to change over time, a fact that most guys just don't get. You may wind up changing yourself. I know you miss the friendship you used to have, but the dynamics of your relationship have also changed to the point where it doesn't work quite like it used to.

    You can talk to her of course, and ask why she does the things she does, but it's unlikely to change anything. Good luck to you.

  • 1 decade ago

    I had the same situation! My friend started to act...well...slutty. I didnt want to be her friend anymore. I dropped her and i missed our relationship a lot the first month or two. I just reminded myself that it was for the best and that i didnt want to become what she was becoming. Its really hard but the longer you guys arent friends the easier it becomes!

  • 1 decade ago

    sometimes you just have to get over a friend like a ex lover. people change and the relationship will never be what it used to be. as you get older people you thought would be your friend forever seem to slowly fade out of your life.

    its ok though, let your friend be who she wants to be and like any other relationship if you were meant to be, she'll come back around and it will be as if nothing has changed.

    Source(s): my life
  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    People change. You need to ask yourself if she is still the same person you were freinds with. If you don't like how she is behaving, or the "new her" move on. Or don't hang out as much. What ever happens, don't let her drag you down. Stand Strong.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Sometimes, it may be hard to take, but friends grow apart! I have had it happen with several close friends! You can try talking to them, but if it doesn't work, try praying for them! That is the best advice I can give on the matter!

  • 1 decade ago

    Well, if she is going to be that way, then you need to get away from her. Sorry, but it's the truth. You can try to be a friend, try to reach out to her, but if she is just going to do her own thing anyway, then it is only going to hurt you more the longer you try to hang on.

  • Drift apart. I did and I'm thankful now because they found him drunk in a ditch with a blood alcohol level way above the legal limit.

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