Wonderring about drug to lower sex drive.?

I can't seem to convince my wife she needs to boost hers so next thing is lower mine. any one know of somethign that deminshes one need for sex?

BikerChick2007-08-12T09:27:48Z

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Marijuana does for sure. Have you gone to an Adult Sex Toys store or have you looked on the net for toys you two can play with??? Nothing outrageous or ridiculous, but tasteful enhancers - they do exist!!! Check it out - - I hope you can get her going again before you resort to slowing down.

kevinmccleanblack2007-08-12T09:43:13Z

Different sex drives in couples are common but why change ,find new ways to have sexual fun.
Drugs can decrease libido. Many prescription antidepressants can diminish sex drive. Other medications with this side effect include tranquilisers and blood pressure medications. The problem is that men can get a lot of bad side effects from taking drugs to lower the sex drive,
My advice is to convince the wife or satisfy your self in other sexual ways
To convince your wife she must realise that it is a lot safer for her to increase her sex drive than it is to lower your own

.2007-08-12T09:32:34Z

Salt peter used to be given to military guys to keep their libido low but you'd have to read up on it as far as amount, side effects, how long it lasts, etc.

Has her drive always been low? If not, what changed to cause it to drop? Life or hormones or ? Perhaps having her doc rule out medical/hormone issues could be a first step, and if all is well there then maybe a counselor would be in order...

A healthy sex life is part of a successful relationship (unless both parties have no interest in sex). When it is unbalanced, issues eventually develop in other areas of the relationship due to one person feeling deprived and/or one person feeling pressured or inadequate.

Would toys, porn, strip clubs, or anything else kinky or erotic possibly stimulate her? Talk to her about this and if she has any fantasies or something she'd like to try instead of whatever the 'norm' is for the two of you...spicing things up may bring her out of her slump (if that's all it is)...

mmurray0012007-08-12T09:28:27Z

Some people have a higher sex drive than other's if i were you i would consult a doctor befor doing anything to lower my sex drive. or boost her's up. This may cause other probelms for your health. Best of luck

cuddleyleo20032007-08-12T09:31:18Z

Can't you guys meet in the middle? Since you said you can't seem to convince her, I won't bore you with the sexual aids, roleplaying etc. suggestions. Sad to hear this question but there is only one drug that can handle this problem. It's called "Counselling". If that does not work, then maybe you are with the wrong person and you can discuss divorce.

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