Hey guys I need help.... I need some ides on going out on dates. I have been with the same guy for three years, love him to death... would't trade him for the world!! What are some good suggestions on things we could do on a date? Maybe romantic? We haven't been alone for a while?..... HELP
j c
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Umm, plan a honeymoon and then get married and go on it! I dunno, best wishes!
Anonymous
Have a night together at home, alone..............I know it sounds simple but it's the most privacy you can get (if you live alone) and it allows for lots of options. You can start the night with a lovely candlelight dinner for two (soft lighting, music, candles, wonderful meal, wine), you follow-up with a movie that you both have never seen (doesn't have to be romantic-just a good choice for you both. If you don't like the same movies then get something that he likes cause it's all about him tonight),make sure that you have dessert (something romantic like strawberries and chocolate or whipped cream-something that you can feed eachother over light conversation), don't lose the mood and everything will fall into place........believe me(don't wanna go in tooooo much detail). A PERRRRRFECT NIGHT!!!!!!!
Anonymous
This one guy I know took his girlfriend to a funky art museum, brought art supplies and notebook and they spent the afternoon trying to "re-create" the famous works of art in their notebook. Apparently it was a hilarious and extremely fun date.
Another thing you can do is have a rooftop picnic under the stars at one of you houses with a semi-flat roof. I say semi-flat because it's more fun when you have to keep the jam from sliding off onto the driveway. You can also have a pizza lunch picnic on a median (little stone and grass filled island in the middle of a busy street) and point out your favorite cars, that one's mostly safe, hahaha!
If you're near a beach you can go have a sand-castle building contest.
Additionally the zoo or a children's museum is a great place to spend the afternoon.
One time my boyfriend took me to a Starbucks and we made up names and lives for the other customers. Lotsa fun.
Basically just think of some odd places to go and adjust the circumstances so the two of you can have a really unique and memorable date.
Good luck!
Sexysass
Well depends on where you live and what your guy likes. I will give you some possible suggestion anyway... Perhaps, a a candle light dinner at home with his favorite meal, followed by a nice massage and music playing in the background...or a nice restaurant that serves his favorite dish. Or you can take him bowling, to a movie, or concert, play, poetry reading, nice bar, upscale club,sports event (basketball, hockey, baseball, soccer etc)., beach, you can plan a picnic, go to a water park, horse racing, ulitmate fighting, medivel times, amusment park, a two hour cruise on a lake or river. You can take him hiking, fishing, or bike riding. Take him to a festival in your area. If you can live in an area where they the have tall building and skyscaper you can go on there sky deck to view the city(very romantic).Lastly, you can take him to a museum or conservatory park. Good Luck!!! I hope I helped:)
BZR
Romantic is good, fun is good, alone is probably really good? If you're taking your guy on a date, he'll appreciate it if you take control and plan everything (also make sure to plan ahead of time!) so he can relax and let you be in control for a while.
Guys like good food but don't enjoy getting primped up like girls do -- somewhere comfortable and good to eat, followed by an activity you both enjoy (do you like the beach? going for walks and talking at night? massages?) sounds like a solid plan.
Try to get your guy to see a new side of you, or remind him of positive aspects of yourself. Be flirtatious with him, listen to what he has to say, let him know you still think he's all that, etc. It's easy to settle into a routine and just making the extra effort to be sexy & attentive can be really awesome for your man.