Ok so I'm totally in love with this guy...and I asked him out and he said "no because I can't risk losing a friend like you" and I melted when he said that...so it didn't help that he said no...so a couple weeks later he asked me out...and I said yes...obviously...so we went out for a week, but in that week it didn't feel like we were going out at all...it felt like we were just really good friends...and he is grounded so I can't call him...or txt him...so I broke up with him and I said that maybe we could try again when he wasn't grounded...and when I did that I broke my own heart...because I love him so much and I no I hurt him to and I don't know how to make it all better I know I screwed up so please give me your opinion on what I should do...we are in 8th grade...
2007-10-31T21:08:22Z
NOO!!!!u have it all wrong!!!!!!!!I broke up with him cuz it didnt feel like we were even going out and i couldnt spend time with him so wats the point?
Ann T2007-10-31T21:04:19Z
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forget about him. you're too young to get mixed up in everything. just be good friends. eventually if it is meant to be, then you will both know and it will be good. take it easy. not too much drama
Well from my incredibly vast experience with girls, yeah right, let me reassure you, without knowing it, you did the right thing. Everyone around me just wants to grow up so quickly. I say just relax and enjoy yourself. Being friends is way cooler than going steady :) But I think it's cool that you're passionate. Why don't you pick up a musical instrument like the harp or the violin. You could then be sorrowful by the moonlight and let the stars soothe your melancholy as you play for them. ok maybe I had too much sugar 2night! Happy Halloween :)
uh huh i cud tell you're young earlier on in the question.
And u did the right thing by setting u both free if u did not feel like it was a real relationship.
I don't think you're really ready to be in a relationship with serious emotions. If you can't handle him being grounded for like 2 weeks- it's not gonna work.
Also you're kind of young to be in love so early. Don't get tied down babe, when you go to high school... whole new world of guys opens up... it's beautiful :)
This may sound harsh but I don't believe that at your age and maturity level that you even know what love is yet. Just based on the circumstances surrounding this "relationship" you both sound very naive. Believe me honey bigger and better things are yet to come and broken hearts can be mended.
why didn't you just stay together until he's ungrounded... Well, I would say you should tell him exactly what you told us. Just say that you like him, but it didn't feel like you were going out and he was grounded so you hardly spent time together but You do like him and want to go out with him again and that you made a mistake. Or something like that, just be honest and open.