Why are White guys afraid to approach Black girls often? Please read!!?
I see this alot in ''White land'' Where i stay. we have few Black people at our schools in general, but the ones we do have are mostly Black girls. they makeup about 88% of the slim Black population. which makes the possibility of a Black girl dating a Black guy at school very slim.
Well my friend''homegirl'' Kashmiere who is Black (and was forced to go to the prep school by her parents because of ''problems at home'', and she does not act white or proper at all, but very outspoken, funny, and ....lonely. she is very well known by many however because of her spirit. everyone wishes they had the strength,serenity, and determination that she had, and she kills on the track team. ''just running from my problems'' she says.
She hangs with me and a few of my friends. boys and girls.she keeps us in awe with jokes and intelligent conversations, but deep down i think she knows she doesn't have alot in common with us. She came from a very hard life with her mom in an urban neighborhood But I think she misses her friends a lot. Black people, I presume, in which she had more in common with. You can catch her a lot curled up in a corner alone with her fist under her chin yawning or reading a book, Especially when we talk about ‘’white stuff’ as she describes it.
And when she is alone in a corner, you can catch my friend who hangs with us, Derrick, (white) straining his neck to stare at her. others him does he like her but he says no. he won’t tell anyone else but me. He will tell his friends if he likes every other white chic at school any other time with confidence. But when they ask him does he like her, he quickly says no. But I’ve known him for years and I can tell when he likes someone. I know he’s just scared. She’s very opinionated at I think it intimidates him, a 6’5 soccer player. HA! He can sit there, talk and stare with and at her for hours, even offer to drive her home. But HE will NOT talk to her for a date! He finally admitted that he liked her “a little’’ according to him.( if you let him tell it) this has been going on for 1 and a half months now and I wish he’s go up and just talk to her about it instead of constantly talking about her to me everyday! I mean they talk all the time, walk places and even laugh and play soccer. but he won’t spit it out! Every time she comes around, he immediately locks up about it. He has approached every blonde hair blue eye girl he adored in the past who were also intimidating, but not her? Hmm “just something about Black girls’’ he told me but didn’t go any deeper. What does that mean? One day we saw a Black girl and white guy walk past us holding hands and Kashmiere immediately replied “gee that’s weird!’ and if it didn’t make things worse, it sure as hell locked him up inside even more! What did she mean by this? I really want them to just get talk already so he can leave me alone! It irritates me to see a person who likes someone not even try. But with her saying ‘’that’s weird’’ do you think she’d actually be interested? Why are white guys so easily intimidated by nice black girls?