so i came out to my best friend and i told her to not tell anyone. we go to different schools in the same city and hangout occasionally. so we hung out and all of her girl friends were acting weird around me. i really didnt think anything of it. but i went into the bathroom and i over heard them talking about how i am lesbian and i probably like them, etc. so what do i do? i never confronted her about it, but im highly upset b/c i trusted her. we are college seniors by the way
Anonymous2007-11-30T17:54:21Z
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If I were you, I'd not trust nor hang out with this "friend", as she obviously cannot be trusted. Your confidence has been betrayed, for whatever reason, and she does not deserve your friendship. You'd be better off completely cutting her out of your life. You'd think by the time someone reaches the senior level in college they would be above gossiping about others.
Henry B, you make no sense whatsoever. Did you even READ her statements?
She doesn't sound like much of a friend. You trusted her with an important secret and she broke that trust. You should confront her and tell her how hurt and confused you are, especially because you told her not to tell anyone. Since you are in college, they are big places and you should be able to find more friends no problem. And her friends sound like stuck-up little twits for saying that you probably liked them because you are a lesbian. I have a lot of lesbian friends and I don't automatically think they like me because they're lesbian. They know I am straight and they respect that. Hope this helps.
A friend can be trusted and she's not included in that. She should have respected your feelings and who you are and she didn't. You should confront her and tell how you really feel and let her know you can no longer trust her with your personal info..if she takes it the wrong way then maybe its time to just end the friendship and find new ones
Well, for one your friend is old enough to know that her little high school drama is childish and she shouldn't be talking ****, whether it's true or not. You told her in private and she should've respected your feelings. If I were you, i would pull your friend to the side and let her have it. Tell her that you really trusted her not to tell people and that she isnt your friend because friends dont do that stuff. She's immature and you deserve better. As for her friends, let them think what they want. Unless they're really ugly, then i would be like... just because you have a vagina doesnt mean im interested. infact looking at them makes you want to be straight because they are such a disgrace to what being a woman is. haha.:-D
If she's totally cool with bisexuals and lesbians, then you could just tell her randomly if you want to. If there is nothing that you guys have to talk about any given moment, then you can just come out and say, "Hey, I'm bi by the way," and I'm sure that she'll be totally cool with it.