my best friend told her friends im lesbian?

If I were you, I'd not trust nor hang out with this "friend", as she obviously cannot be trusted. Your confidence has been betrayed, for whatever reason, and she does not deserve your friendship. You'd be better off completely cutting her out of your life.

You'd think by the time someone reaches the senior level in college they would be above gossiping about others.

Henry B, you make no sense whatsoever. Did you even READ her statements?

She doesn't sound like much of a friend. You trusted her with an important secret and she broke that trust. You should confront her and tell her how hurt and confused you are, especially because you told her not to tell anyone. Since you are in college, they are big places and you should be able to find more friends no problem. And her friends sound like stuck-up little twits for saying that you probably liked them because you are a lesbian. I have a lot of lesbian friends and I don't automatically think they like me because they're lesbian. They know I am straight and they respect that. Hope this helps.

A friend can be trusted and she's not included in that. She should have respected your feelings and who you are and she didn't. You should confront her and tell how you really feel and let her know you can no longer trust her with your personal info..if she takes it the wrong way then maybe its time to just end the friendship and find new ones

Well, for one your friend is old enough to know that her little high school drama is childish and she shouldn't be talking ****, whether it's true or not. You told her in private and she should've respected your feelings. If I were you, i would pull your friend to the side and let her have it. Tell her that you really trusted her not to tell people and that she isnt your friend because friends dont do that stuff. She's immature and you deserve better. As for her friends, let them think what they want. Unless they're really ugly, then i would be like... just because you have a vagina doesnt mean im interested. infact looking at them makes you want to be straight because they are such a disgrace to what being a woman is. haha.:-D

If she's totally cool with bisexuals and lesbians, then you could just tell her randomly if you want to. If there is nothing that you guys have to talk about any given moment, then you can just come out and say, "Hey, I'm bi by the way," and I'm sure that she'll be totally cool with it.

well if she went against you like that with something this personal im sry hun but she doesnt sound like a very good best friend. you nead to confront her as soon as you can. try not to show anger that can just make things worse. get her alone and ask her why she would betray your trust like that and tell her that if she were really your best friend she would have understood not to tell other people when you spesificaly asked her not to.

wow that is not a friend trust me when i say it if u cacth ur best friend talking about u behind ur back sham on her but if its something that is a big secrect then i wouldnt be friends with her it just shows her true colors. ive found out the real colors of my x- best friend. trust me dont go any farther u'll just get hurt. and ur ready to start ur life real soon! dont bring any negitivety into it. start fresh and new

she's not a true friend since she didn't keep a promise to a secret you made...what you should do is confront her about it and tell her how you feel and that you dont like that she told them. tell her to quit acting like a child...since you are all in college and to grow up

You have a right to feel sad and betrayed and at the same time angry confront her tell her how you feel and why it was wrong next time becareful with who you trust!

Well, if they really were your friends and she was you best friend, then they should accept how you are. If they can simply not accept that, then too bad for them, they lost a great friend! Find new ones who accept the way you are and will treat you with equality.