why is it that when u chat with someone online and find out u have so much in common?
then u chat online for a week or so....then all of a sudden they seem kinda bored? theres this one person that ive been chatting with....we have been getting along so well!~ now all of a sudden this person doesnt answer my im's~ dont answer my fone calls!! whats up with that? i understand he is busy..but i take time outta my day...y cant he?
serious answers only.....is it cuz hes just a player tryin to get some dirty pics? what do u think?
2008-03-25T14:05:35Z
i sent pics...but not dirty!lol
Anonymous2008-03-25T14:31:44Z
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Could be the guy was just busy doing things to save his job before chatting with you. How do you know he hasn't tried contacting you? You might be just jumping to circumstances that were beyond his control. I think the guy still wants to chat and will be in touch with you. Maybe he has been trying and you two just miss each other.....
Well it could be that he is running out of things to talk about. As you said you have been talking on the computer and phone which will take for some long conversations and that will make you run out of things to say. It could also mean that he might of found someone else to talk to in person and dosent need the company of a companion just over electronics. The question is what are you in it for are you looking to meet the guy and see if he is as nice in person or are you just looking for a friend?
Could be that he has run out of things to say. When you talk to someone a lot like that it can get old and he may think that you are pushing at him a little to talk. I don't think he is trying to get pictures because you didn't say anything about him asking for any right? And that seems like a lot of time and investment for a picture. Maybe just back off some and not im him for a few days and see what happens.
It's possible that he could have just wanted dirty pics... has he asked for them?
He could also be busy with school work or something...
I hate it when someone takes the time to pm/email me and the minute they find out I have a bf they disappear.. it's kind of pathetic when they come online to score nudes or want to cyber.... what happened to just getting to know someone?
I think with anyone you chat with online you should keep it light! Internet people come and go like the wind. You've only chatted for a week.........certainly not what you'd call a committed relationship. You sound young.........just play and have fun and don't believe a word you read!!