Men : What do you think or do if your wife/lover /girlfriend thinks she is rudely ignored?
When you eat in the Restaurant,the waiters always put the tab tray in front of you.. If I am a man ,I will distract her attention by talking and looking into her eyes romantically and discreetly elbow the tab tray in front of her to make her not "ignored". by not paying for her man's meal ?
2008-04-03T14:08:32Z
This question is derived from an answer, that I think it is a bit silly, thanks for all of your answers.
2008-04-03T14:11:57Z
Love you guys,!!! I have fun reading your answers. gurlygul that's cute!!
2008-04-03T14:12:48Z
sorry I mean hungurl
2008-04-03T18:03:36Z
ozs , your idea is okay and a bit oh la la ! but for pete sakes !! Grab the tab tray and put in front of your date/woman and look the" waiter" in the eye and tell never to"" ignore your woman that he has to put the tab in front of her or else .... show him your muscle . I don't know why she can't reach to get that stupid tab and pay for it. I guess feminist still weaker sex wants to be clingy to a man ? But love t b*tch ?
2008-04-03T18:06:48Z
ozs I am knock off my socks with your idea : A real macho man talking.
Oz S2008-04-03T17:02:10Z
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LOL, the best way to go about this is not to take her to the restaurant in the first place - cook her a home-made candle-light dinner, then spend the evening seducing her.
Most guys I know (not all) know how to cook and do so very well. Most girls I know do NOT know how to cook, so will be impressed by the "arcane arts" of cooking wizardry.
And one can have a selection of one's OWN drinks to go with the meal. If you're into home-made beverages, try honey-wine or honey beer. It'll knock her socks off - and the rest of the clothes then become a whole lot easier to remove. Socks, did I say? Hurrumph, those DRATTED SOCKS are a real difficult thing... but they're like the bath-plug, once they are gone, the rest just drains away.
I'd ignore her silly ramblings on that. Since the start men have always been the providers and while times are now changing she shouldn't expect that everyones going to agree. Out of those who eat at a resteraunt that are couples the vast majority still follow the man pays rule. She needs to accept that and just work out the check between you and her and not get bent out at the wait staff.
But you can always say to the waiter seperate checks at the start of the meal if thats how its being done or think of some small comment for when the waiter/ress is there suggesting she's paying and hope they pick up the hint like "next time its on me honey" or whatever.
You fail to see what has been in the past known as tradition. Traditionally, the man asks the woman out, pays for the meal, basically has all expenses of the date. Waiters are trained to either set the bill in front of the man or near mid table in todays society. It's not being rude as it is only what etiquette dictates be done. In todays society, it is not uncommon for the woman to ask the man out or to go dutch or pay for the date in its entirety, but restaurant waiters will always either put the tab in the middle of the table or near the gentleman, unless the woman is already searching her purse for the credit card, then he may set the tab near her. I won't do anything because I don't find anything that was done as rude.
I don't get this. If she is picking up the tab I'll tell the waiter. No need to pretend. If she thinks the guy is rude then she can talk to the manager. Peace
are you saying you're jealous that men always get handed the bill?
That means we have to pay it.........
If you would like the bill, just ask for it... the waiter will give you lots of attention and i'm sure the guy would appreciate a free meal for once....