if u had a long relationship and then u get 4months pregnant, then u get an abortion done.. ur hurt mentally.. but u thank that guy coz he's been with u till the complete process of abortion took place.... but he is 10 yrs elder to her... and then to overcome her injuries she leaves him heartbroken to start a new life away from the old life ... allows her to fall in love with someone who has been her gr8 friend and then proposes her unaware of anything..... should she continue of get back with her terrible life coz the old guy loves her ........pl tell genuinly...
Getting pregnant is never been done by one side. If one of them is unwilling to do it, the incident becomes an accident. So it is to think first, that whether the sexual relation was love or not... Next to it, The abortion process can be accompanied by the boy, in the interest, that somehow he doesn't get infamous. But if still after the abortion, the boy is ready to love her for the rest of the life, & willing to marry her, he really loves the girl by heart. Now as the girl want to live the boy, she wants to put the blame of of the accident totally on the boy, & want to get rid of him, ( so that she can hook-up with a new guy again??? Shame!!!) I think, instead of getting away, the girl should ask the boy to marry her. If he refuses, she has the right to go. Even to slap him. But if he loves her, the girl will make a mistake.
Having an abortion will hurt anyone mentally your partner is great for understanding and staying with you but if being with him brings pain to you about the abortion and makes it difficult for you to overcome you should be with someone who can bring you happiness but also someone who will understand your decision in having an abortion but you can also start a new life with that same person you were in that relationship with getting married could change your life and can help you overcome it. This person is probably also affected by the abortion and wants to get married so you both can move on together happily married.
ok well thats difficult and complictaed but i suppose you already know that...i say yea go back to the old guy he seems to really like you maybe even love you...he stuck through with you through the good times and the bad times and being with him should make your old life alot easier. you will want someone who you can trust will stay with you through the tough in the long run
i would think of whom i love, and not who loves me. u cant be with someone just bcuz he says he still loves u. if he did, he wouldnt let u do abortion at the first place....