Is Social Ethics not commonly practice now a days to women when dining out with their man?

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I think they just need to chill out and eat some nachos....Show more

Servers should not be making assumptions about who will pay. If someone asks for the check, then it is clear that this is the person who will pay it. If no one has asked, then servers should present the bill in a neutral way, not automatically present it to the male. For all the server knows this is a female boss having a business meeting with a male subordinate, or otherwise a lady treating a guest to a meal.

Consider that if the table were all men or all women, the server wouldn't make any assumptions about who gets the bill -- if he/she did, that could create some awkwardness as the diners would have to deal with that unwarranted assumption. A lady laying her credit card on the table is merely an unobtrusive way to prevent insensitive servers from making this awkward mistake. Unless we are living in an ideal world where servers don't make unwarranted assumptions about who gets the bill, then such signals are both useful and desirable.

If you, as a server, have a problem with accepting the idea of ladies treating gentlemen then perhaps you are in the wrong line of work. Your "the male should get the bill" attitude will not go unnoticed and these ladies will be tipping you less than you might receive if you attitude were "it's none of my business who pays the bill as long as it gets paid."...Show more

Hi Nannili

I can see that you are a female. But I do not understand your question here .........

Why would a women put her wallet on the table?

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