How do you make yourself care if your fat or not????
In need some kinda of inspiration, something to make me get up and go..... Even if the doc tells you that its causing health problems & it still hasn't phased you..... What do you do to start to care??????
All 3 are good suggestions, but as far as the first answer my kids are grown and I've done all I am going to do in life. 2nd answer that should do it normally but I do work everyday & have to get up and fix my hair, make up and descent clothes so that isn't working either. I work in a place where I see rough looking people everyday & they do sometimes disgust me too but I don't look like that and am not unattractive, just 100 lbs over weight. I've gone through life thinking people found me disgusting as far as the weight goes, but my attitude was they could kiss me a s s. So that hasn't phased me either..
3rd answer I tried to be anorexic one time but I would just rather be fat, I love food way to much. I know it sounds bad. It has got to be depression.
I thank you for these answers and I will keep them in my head, maybe it will shake me!
I will have to choose #2, because it is more aggressive and to the bone, that is what I need to hear. I'm stubborn like that!!