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How do you make yourself care if your fat or not????

In need some kinda of inspiration, something to make me get up and go..... Even if the doc tells you that its causing health problems & it still hasn't phased you..... What do you do to start to care??????

Update:

All 3 are good suggestions, but as far as the first answer my kids are grown and I've done all I am going to do in life. 2nd answer that should do it normally but I do work everyday & have to get up and fix my hair, make up and descent clothes so that isn't working either. I work in a place where I see rough looking people everyday & they do sometimes disgust me too but I don't look like that and am not unattractive, just 100 lbs over weight. I've gone through life thinking people found me disgusting as far as the weight goes, but my attitude was they could kiss me a s s. So that hasn't phased me either..

3rd answer I tried to be anorexic one time but I would just rather be fat, I love food way to much. I know it sounds bad. It has got to be depression.

I thank you for these answers and I will keep them in my head, maybe it will shake me!

I will have to choose #2, because it is more aggressive and to the bone, that is what I need to hear. I'm stubborn like that!!

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  • 1 decade ago
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    I just take a cruise through the local mall. I scope out everyone there after a short while I am honestly disgusted by how many ppl don't care about their appearance.

    It's one thing to be a little less than attractive by nature but it's a whole different ball game if your unattractiveness is a result of improper self care.

    I see plenty of women in the mall that put little or no time into their hair & make up...but it makes it so much worse when you see a fata$$ sippin' a latte. Talk about getting some pride in your appearence.

  • 1 decade ago

    u should find out how being fat harms your health

    of course u could view some thinspiration photos but they may trigger off anorexia so its not a good way

  • 1 decade ago

    Think of my son and how unfair it would be to continue my selfish ways.

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