Men: Is it okay or tactless if a woman who has a crushed on you will ask you if you are GAY?

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for some rumor that there is no base ? I have observe "some" men looks effeminate, but not gay,and " some "hunk men that are gay. Do you agree with me that it is rude to ask a person if he is straight or gay before he" nose dive to that man"?

So shy · Accepted Answer

You are so, so, right. there is no way should she ask him if hes gay. its extremely tactless, rude and offensive. i would hate it. it would make me feel like my manliness was being called into question and i would be very insulted. i think she would be much better off just to spend time with him and observe the way he interacts. she should be able to pick up the vibes to tell whether hes into girls (and particularly her) or not.

Anonymous · Answer

The best policy is to ask him straight out if he is homosexual. You can say: May I ask you a personal question? Chances are that he is going to say yes. At that point, you ask him: Are you gay? If he asks why do you want to know, you can tell him: Because I have feelings for you.
In this day and age there is no reason to beat around the bush. I thought women were liberated enough to ask these types of questions. Why should you torture yourself with conjectures and doubts? If he is gay just get over him. If not just wait for his reaction. If the response is positive go on from there. If not forget about him. There are plenty of fish in the sea. Don't be shy! Just do it!

Anonymous · Answer

hmm...good question. im a girl and i know you asked men, but i wanted to give you the girl side of it. if i asked a guy that, it could mean multiple things:
1. he looked gay
2. i didnt want to waste my time
3. just curiosity
4. he acted more feminine
personally, i wouldn't ask someone that straight off the bat, especially if i didnt know them on a personal level so IF i ever asked someone if he was gay, my reasoning would probably be because of #2 and #4.
hope ur feelings dont get hurt and everything works out fine. :)

Anonymous · Answer

I think that it would really offend the man and push him away from you.  Get to know the man first before you try a bold question like that.

dixondug · Answer

In this day and age, no. May just be asking so she's not wasting her time.
Don't take it personal. Who knows, maybe you just have more style than she's used to seeing, take it as a compliment, lol.

Men: Is it okay or tactless if a woman who has a crushed on you will ask you if you are GAY?

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