What the hell is my problem!?

I feel like I'm messed up in the head.. So in the last year I have been through my finace passing away, then my grandpa, and a miscarriage.. Then I meet this guy and I get so hung up on him and he is such an a*s but yet I can't seem to stop. He thinks that I'm a liar and lie to him every chance I get and I'm not lying to him about a damn thing and all I want to do is prove to him that he is wrong.. My fiance suffered from bipolar and ended up taking his own life and this guy, when stuff goes wrong with us brings that up and talks about it in such a negative way.. My finace hung himself at his house.. So me and this guy just got in a fight and he told me that he hopes that I die and wishes that I would kill myself by hanging myself in my garage.. It made me cry but yet in the end of it all i still want to prove to him that I've not been lying to him... What the hell is wrong with me!? I'm just venting and not really looking for an answer, but damn.. I've got some problems.

Anonymous2008-05-08T20:16:06Z

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Its No tyou! Get away from him and find new friends. Hold off on another boyfriend for now. Get to know yourself first. You are the most important person in your life. If you cant take care of you ,you cant help anyone else.

Dawn2008-05-08T20:55:32Z

Have you considered therapy, sometimes it helps to talk to someone. You've obviously had a rough year. I'm sorry to hear about your fiance. there are plenty of groups for people who have lost loved ones to suicide. Rather than bottling your emotions, try to reach out to others. this man you're with now sounds like a horrible person, you really need to focus on yourself right now. He is not going to make you feel better about yourself. take some time for yourself, find a hobby, make some new friends, go out and enjoy life.

Laurie2008-05-08T20:30:50Z

This guy is a jerk and not worth your time. Tell him you are tellling the truth and until he gives you respect, not to bother you. You need counseling for gried because of the numerous losses, the fiance, the grandfather and possible child.
Get help. Professionals have heard it all before and know how to help. Everyone has problems.

chellejestd2008-05-08T20:09:51Z

You can't fix other people or their opinion of you. I hope you value yourself enough to know your worth more than that to someone out there in the world. It may even be someone you don't know. Letting go is hard, for me I never wanted to admit maybe I made a mistake from the get go when I picked a loser. Misery loves company so let him drag somebody else down.

cara_c2008-05-08T20:17:20Z

He's a real asshole. No one should ever say that to you.

You're not messed up in the head at all. You're doing pretty well it seems... Who knows what I would do if I had to go through ALL OF THAT in just ONE year.

Dump the loser. Get somebody who values you.

Everybody's got problems.
love

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