Ok well you see that the past weekend I had gone for a field trip with some friends and with this friends there was one of the guys that I had a thing with and on this farm that we were there Me and this guy almost had sex and I have a boyfriend and now I want to know should I tell my bf about this its not that he is suspicious or anything I just feel very guilty.I love this man of mine or are somethings better left unsad???
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Yes tell him, But also tell him nothing happened, If you don't have trust in a relationship you have nothing....
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If nothing serious happened then I would let it go. If you truly love your man and KNOW what you did was a mistake then leave it. Some things are better left unsaid but don't let it eat you up. If you feel like it is going to nag away at you then you might be better to talk to him about it but be prepared for disappointment.
andy2
you need to take some time to figure things out first. if you have a thingfor another guy maybe u should consider breaking up with ur boyfriend....if you really love ur boyfriend more then that guy then its best to tell the truth. in the end he will find out because every secret gets out somehow... and it will just cause alot more problem...its best to talk about it with him
Lzbz
You telling him would only complicate things and he would lose his trust in you. If you are NEVER going to do this again, let go and don't tell him. But if you feel that you might, tell him and also consider ending your relationship with him coz you would not be loyal to him. If it was just a one off mistake, don't tell him and move on.
Vojkan 79
u tell him the truth, he will be hurted several days, but just to discover how much u are honest and trustable with him, just be careful coz he can think how u want to make him jealous or something...