My buddy from school used to stop me on the street, give me hugs, for a year. Now he's serious, dismissive, and about 10 years older.
I had to remind him, why I looked familiar. He used to be fun and happy. Now, he's serious as a heart attack.
Anonymous
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Sometimes a failure to the job.Sorry
A lot of my friends are Fed's Most are cool as s---.
And the most aggressive ,highly trained -is the funniest person you would ever want to know.
Maybe your friend ,needs a friend.
Anonymous
Nobody likes people who have position's of authority. Not that he's ever done anything bad but people hate what he stands for. Everybody gives him crap where he doesn't deserve it. So he only does all-out notions anymore. It just takes some time to get adjusted. It happens to everybody in his position. Military, Police, you name it. Give it a bit. He'll eventually learn to tone it down. Just takes experience. Nothing you can really do, just something he has to figure out himself.
Sit him down and ask him about some stories. I bet he has alot of them.
michele
Being in a position to abuse ridiculous amounts of undeserved power over others will do that to a person.
~M~
amsam
maybe it's not that he's a cop, maybe he's married. or --- the job is like another world and maybe he just doesn't see you as part of it anymore.