Does it count as losing your virginity if you get raped?

JuliusPleasr2008-06-20T21:44:22Z

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WAW what D paul is, wow, I don't think so because ussually losing your virginity is defined as physically giving yourself to somebody. Now virginity isnt a scientific word so its parameters are ambiguous. I personally believe that virginity cant be taken but must be given thats how the word was initially brought about. And like I said there is no scientific word for the first time you let someone put a penis in you, so therefore its definition isn't concrete in that sense, so if you got raped your still a virgin you can relax.

Anonymous2008-06-20T21:49:15Z

I see it this way - losing your virginity is completely different from having it stolen from you. If I was with a woman and she told me that her only other sexual experience was being raped then in my eyes she would still be a virgin.

soul-doc2008-06-20T21:48:56Z

Maybe you can phrase your answer like this "yes sir, I am a virgin if you don't count rape"

Mom of 42008-06-20T21:40:57Z

Yes, it counts physically. The bigger question is why are you asking this? Are you in a relationship that you need to tell someone, are you getting married? That makes all the difference.

Brent2008-06-20T21:53:09Z

No. You didn't lose anything. It was stolen from you. If anyone holds this against you for any reason dump them and run in the other direction because it shows how immature and judgmental they are.

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