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Should I stay with him even though he did all of this to me?
I'm 25 years old and i've been dating my baby's father for 2 years now. before I got pregnant, he had told me he an 2 month old already. He had no house, no car, and no job. (yes I know I was desperate). 3 months later into the relationship, I found out I was pregnant with my 1st child. after that, he started cheating on me with his 1st baby mom and other women as well. (His 1st baby mama told me she didn't know that he was with me. She even sent me screenshots asking our babys father why didn't he tell her) which I actually still didn't believe her so I called her a liar. Then She said, "Since you want to keep playing games, i'm going to continue sleeping with him again. My reply was, "That's y'all business". 2 years later, Now im pregnant again and He's STILL cheating on me with other women. (not with his babys mom tho because she put a PPO on him for abusing her in front of their kid). He doesn't pay any us child support, he never keeps money, I have to ask my sister to babysit, and for cash for all 3 of us. (His child, my daughter and myself) most times he's not even at the house. I found out not to long ago that he spent a night out with his 1ST BABY MAMA AND THEIR CHILD WHILE I WAS AT THE HOUSE PREGNANT WITH OUR SON smh. I feel so bad. I cheated with him while his 1st baby mom was pregnant, now he's cheating on me too. I dont know what to do. Should I stay with him even though he's doing all of this to me? 😪
13 Answers
- FoofaLv 72 weeks ago
No, just stay with him and keep posting the same question over and over. That's easier than actually looking out for the welfare of the child you claim to have.
- ?Lv 73 weeks ago
No.
Leave him. You made a mistake getting together with him in the first place. Neither of you are ready to make a relationship work with anyone .. both of you need to mature more.
This relationship will NOT work out ever, so leave.
- Dr. StephanieLv 73 weeks ago
1. Of course you shouldn't stay with him. He's a big time loser without any character or ethics, and the best predictor of future behavior is past behavior. In this regard, he has already flunked ,many times.
2. Get your tubes tied, honey, you continue to make bad choices, get pregnant, and its your children who will suffer.
- seedy historyLv 73 weeks ago
He's being exactly who he's been from day one. YOU are the one doing all of this to yourself. YOU have now, in two years, gotten pregnant twice by this man and are apparently going to give birth to two of his babies all the while knowing full well how he treats his kids and the women who bore them. This is how you are treating yourself! This is the life you are wishing on your children. Stop blaming him. He's doing what he's been doing since long before you met him and hasn't changed his tune at all. He's clearly got issues. It's time you took a look at how YOUR choices are affecting your life and the life of your children. Doesn't sound like he has any intention of changing at all.
- i + iLv 73 weeks ago
You deserve everything that is
(and will be) happening to you
if you continue acting like such
an ignorant fool. I pity your kids.
- n2mamaLv 73 weeks ago
Why is your self esteem so low that you think this loser is the best you can do? Sure, stay with him if you want to, but don’t be complaining about what a cheater/loser/deadbeat he is when you’ve chosen to have not one but two children with him and tolerate all of this.
- ?Lv 63 weeks ago
stay...with...???? wtf...no you should not stay with him. you made a stupid horrible mistake...dont let that one mistake dictate the rest of your life. you can do better.
