Homophobia..?

This is particularly for the Malaysians in this section..

Can you all please stop with all the 'backside' question and any other questions just to stir alot of hate towards homosexuals.. It really hurts me and many other people out there..

I'm a 17 year old guy, and I love men as much I do women.
How does that change anything about me? I have treated every one of you here with nothing but absolute respect..

Im not asking you to accept our lifestyle, but have you all heard of the phrase "live and let live"? Its better to love than to hate and cause pain. You might not like us, but do you really feel good bout yourself causing pain to anyone(regardless of what the reason is)?

I dont want to make this long as I do not know where the hatred comes from or what caused it, so just to make this a question.. I'd like to hear your views on this. Although I know some of you might start verbally bashing me, just say it.. I dont mind...

Anonymous2008-07-03T17:22:20Z

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despite what others/yourself may think

I STILL LOVE YOU


honey just ignore all these back poking questions and answers. they were just going along with the hottest topic in the country. they will soon die down...

muacks

Wild Bean2008-07-04T00:42:54Z

Backside questions ? I ain't seeing any of them in this YAM section yet ... How you live is your choice but I just want to say it aint 'normal' ... for homo sapiens, you need male and female to propagate ... and if intimacy between men and men is for sexual gratifying, then it is again ain't normal ... just like we abuse medicine as drugs ... or we abuse alcohol ... it is said a little wine is good for the stomach but how little is the little ? ... or we abuse the motorcycle that is designed to bring us from point A to point B ... like those Mat Rempits ...

Bottom line, I hope one day you will understand what is normal ... don't just blame it on 'the way I am born with ' ... also homosexuals is one of the social ills in modern society ... just imagine if all men are doing same sex marriage and adopting kids, how much more problem a society will have to go through ... maybe ladies will be like cattle ... can be rented for surrogate mother ... childen growing up never calling the word 'Mom' ...but I pray these days will not happen ...

MissChievous2008-07-04T00:57:53Z

Hi deena,

just wanna let you know that i dont have any ill-feelings towards gay people and infact few of my friends are gays and i have no problem towards them..and infact, i love to have them around coz they are just interesting people like others..

the only problem is that, it happens to be that Anwar is a gay and he always cause a stir & uneasiness among Malaysians and so, we hate this kind of situation..

i hope you will understand and no hurt-feelings ya.

emerald_mara852008-07-04T02:12:33Z

1. Well, its ain't a secret that alot of gays think they're right and bash up religion especially my religion. I tend to view this in this way: A child asks her mother for some cookies before dinner, naturally the mother says no, you'll spoil your appetite. The child whine on and on and says its not fair...See the similiarity?

2. Gayism is wrong. Simply wrong. In my words...the population increase won't be on the bright side. Along with STDs running amock. Alot of gays just don't have protection. And yes, some heterosexuals have that too. But gayism can encourage free sex especially to prove yourselves whether you're gay or not(early stages that is)...and then you get hook on. And many gays prefer to have multiple sex partners (Its not a joke). And then if they happened to be married to the opposite sex...well it ain't a pretty picture when you're told your partner is gay and gave you AIDS or HIV.

*Sigh* despite all that...I'm just not the sort of person to bash up gays when gays walk on the streets...no matter how many curses they utter to my religion or God. Let's just say that God gave me a pretty big conscious...

If you want to swing that way...whateverlah. Its your choice.

But don't go preaching that gayism is right and religion is (whatever curse word you like to utter). You wanna be in the wrong...then accept itlah that its just that kind of road. Man, at least alot of smokers knows it wrong to smoke. Even though it doesn't stop them...

Well, those are my honest words that came from facts and whether you want to accept it or not...depends on you.
You don't like it than don't readlah!
Nobody is saying its mandatory to read it.

Anonymous2008-07-03T18:43:26Z

Deena,

Yes, you are a very nice person ( no doubt on that).
But in Y!AM, we don't have just homophobic,
we have

Islamophobic, which is very2 irritating to us as a muslim in Malaysia.

We also have politicophobic like me and some of us.

And few people whose suffering gynophobia (fear of women),
and enjoy insulting us as well.

We also have 'toilet bowl', a parasit who keep irritating us by deleting our questions and answers.

This is Y!AM where freedom of speech is applied (supposedly).
Just ignore whoever despise you,
and have fun with those who have no discrimination towards others.

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