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Deena asked in TravelAsia PacificMalaysia · 1 decade ago

Homophobia..?

This is particularly for the Malaysians in this section..

Can you all please stop with all the 'backside' question and any other questions just to stir alot of hate towards homosexuals.. It really hurts me and many other people out there..

I'm a 17 year old guy, and I love men as much I do women.

How does that change anything about me? I have treated every one of you here with nothing but absolute respect..

Im not asking you to accept our lifestyle, but have you all heard of the phrase "live and let live"? Its better to love than to hate and cause pain. You might not like us, but do you really feel good bout yourself causing pain to anyone(regardless of what the reason is)?

I dont want to make this long as I do not know where the hatred comes from or what caused it, so just to make this a question.. I'd like to hear your views on this. Although I know some of you might start verbally bashing me, just say it.. I dont mind...

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    despite what others/yourself may think

    I STILL LOVE YOU

    honey just ignore all these back poking questions and answers. they were just going along with the hottest topic in the country. they will soon die down...

    muacks

  • 1 decade ago

    Backside questions ? I ain't seeing any of them in this YAM section yet ... How you live is your choice but I just want to say it aint 'normal' ... for homo sapiens, you need male and female to propagate ... and if intimacy between men and men is for sexual gratifying, then it is again ain't normal ... just like we abuse medicine as drugs ... or we abuse alcohol ... it is said a little wine is good for the stomach but how little is the little ? ... or we abuse the motorcycle that is designed to bring us from point A to point B ... like those Mat Rempits ...

    Bottom line, I hope one day you will understand what is normal ... don't just blame it on 'the way I am born with ' ... also homosexuals is one of the social ills in modern society ... just imagine if all men are doing same sex marriage and adopting kids, how much more problem a society will have to go through ... maybe ladies will be like cattle ... can be rented for surrogate mother ... childen growing up never calling the word 'Mom' ...but I pray these days will not happen ...

  • 1 decade ago

    Hi deena,

    just wanna let you know that i dont have any ill-feelings towards gay people and infact few of my friends are gays and i have no problem towards them..and infact, i love to have them around coz they are just interesting people like others..

    the only problem is that, it happens to be that Anwar is a gay and he always cause a stir & uneasiness among Malaysians and so, we hate this kind of situation..

    i hope you will understand and no hurt-feelings ya.

  • 1 decade ago

    1. Well, its ain't a secret that alot of gays think they're right and bash up religion especially my religion. I tend to view this in this way: A child asks her mother for some cookies before dinner, naturally the mother says no, you'll spoil your appetite. The child whine on and on and says its not fair...See the similiarity?

    2. Gayism is wrong. Simply wrong. In my words...the population increase won't be on the bright side. Along with STDs running amock. Alot of gays just don't have protection. And yes, some heterosexuals have that too. But gayism can encourage free sex especially to prove yourselves whether you're gay or not(early stages that is)...and then you get hook on. And many gays prefer to have multiple sex partners (Its not a joke). And then if they happened to be married to the opposite sex...well it ain't a pretty picture when you're told your partner is gay and gave you AIDS or HIV.

    *Sigh* despite all that...I'm just not the sort of person to bash up gays when gays walk on the streets...no matter how many curses they utter to my religion or God. Let's just say that God gave me a pretty big conscious...

    If you want to swing that way...whateverlah. Its your choice.

    But don't go preaching that gayism is right and religion is (whatever curse word you like to utter). You wanna be in the wrong...then accept itlah that its just that kind of road. Man, at least alot of smokers knows it wrong to smoke. Even though it doesn't stop them...

    Well, those are my honest words that came from facts and whether you want to accept it or not...depends on you.

    You don't like it than don't readlah!

    Nobody is saying its mandatory to read it.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Deena,

    Yes, you are a very nice person ( no doubt on that).

    But in Y!AM, we don't have just homophobic,

    we have

    Islamophobic, which is very2 irritating to us as a muslim in Malaysia.

    We also have politicophobic like me and some of us.

    And few people whose suffering gynophobia (fear of women),

    and enjoy insulting us as well.

    We also have 'toilet bowl', a parasit who keep irritating us by deleting our questions and answers.

    This is Y!AM where freedom of speech is applied (supposedly).

    Just ignore whoever despise you,

    and have fun with those who have no discrimination towards others.

    Source(s): not everybody fond me too. always receive thumbs-down and violation notice. But what d' heck, it doesn't affect my daily life. Not a bit!
  • Jeffy
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    ^

    ohh deena..

    i dont think anyone is gonna verbally bash you up..

    but posting this question, surely you were hurt by those comments on gay questions....

    just dont let it get to you k?

    just ignore those who you feel has hurt or offend you..

    and hang out with us who can accept you as you are..

    after all we all come to Y!A to have fun..

    and btw,there's nothing wrong with being gay or straight..

    we're all human right?

    good luck dude!

  • 1 decade ago

    We all FREE to talk anythings here ! whether you like man or women is your own business. nothings to do with us. but if you are one of the countries leader , we must CARE for it. carry on what you like and what you do. is okay.( you just cannot be our PM )

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    You can be as gay as the joker for all I care. I really haven't seen too much gay bashing in this section anyway.

    My personal problem with gays is when they flaunt their flamboyancy. Please keep that in your gay bars or your homes.

    Other than that, like you said, live and let live.

    Source(s): getting scared yet "It's Show Time"???
  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Hey I know it's hard, try to ignore them. They are just hateful, ignorant people who are trying to get a rise out you. just don't even look at the questions.

    p.s. GOOD FOR YOU! being true to yourself and standing up for yourself!!!

  • 1 decade ago

    Did i miss something here? (been gone quite a while)..

    Backside, frontside...

    me - crabphobic.

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