ok so im in college and i took a badminton class because there is no homework and its pretty cool
and there is this cool girl that is also in my class ive talked to her every time ive had badminton class (Mon, Wed- 12-12:50pm)
we always play singles against each other when class starts to warm up (she asks me to) and we tease each other when we mess up...
i want to get to know her better maybe even go out with her
how should i ask her??? i dont have her number
What should we do/where to go?? i dont want it to be akward because i hardly know her
Do you think she might like me?
Thanks for the help! detailed answers are very appreciated!
Wing-Girl2008-09-16T07:39:22Z
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Honestly, hold a conversation with her when you are playing singles. Find out a little more about her that way so you can get a vibe to see what she likes, favorite foods, hobbies, music, etc.
Example
You: Hey, so i have a question? Girl: Whats that?
You: I really dont know much about you tell me some things. Girl: Well okay... what do you want to know?
(play it off as if your not egger to know but curious)
You:Ummmm... I dont know? What kind of music do you listen to? Girl: (?????)
^^ Thats one example You can always start a conversation with a girl this way because your not just asking her out of the blue "WHAT KIND OF MUSIC DO YOU LISTEN TO?" Your working up to it. And you can also ask different questions after she answers but I would always comment or relate after she answers so for example....
You: So what is your favorite kind of food? Girl: Oh that is easy.... Italian!
You: Really! Thats one of my favorite to! You know i would love to take you to this restaurant that has great italian food. What you think? Girl: Yeah that sounds great.
You: Well awesome, so when we get back in class we will exchange numbers, and plan when we both have time to get together, sound good? Girl: Great!!
Just another word of advice never say something were you will work around her schedule at FIRST. Make it were you both PLAN to work something out together (as a team) GIRLS LOVE THAT. It makes you look like you love to communicate with her.
Also, when you have these conversations at class, this will give you time to get to know her, and not have to take her out to get to know her. Even though us girls sometimes like to be treated to a dinner, or a movie. Also, to get her number.
After that take your time, but dont be a slug.Girls like it when a man knows what he wants and he will do what he has to do to get it.
KEEP CLOSE ATTENTION TO HER ANSWERS THIS WILL GIVE YOU HINTS ON WHAT SHE LIKES AND DISLIKES, AND GIVE YOU IDEAS ABOUT DATES AND WHAT TO DO ON DATES.
Be creative and thoughtful on the first date to. Dont buy flowers on the first date, if the first date goes well maybe the secound you can get flowers. But i would advise after the first kiss to get flowers.^_^
HINTS on if she likes you:
- She smiles alot at you
- Teases you
- Always starts the conversations
- Says hello right when she see's you
- Asks you to be her partner in the class before anyone else
Those are a few things that could hint she likes you^^^^^^^
LASTLY, Always be your self and have fun with her and be postive, be exactly YOURSELF and you will have a great time. Well good luck!!!!
If you're not sure how she feels, make it casual. Ask her to join you for lunch or coffee and get to know her a little better. If you like where things are going, make plans to meet up again for another activity. You'll be able to tell by her reaction if she's into you, but you have to move fast or she'll be surprised if she finds out you're interested later on.