my life doesn't completely suck but i still get the urge to die. i have many good times but the few bad times i have had have affected me so much. i just need some reassurance. someone out there tell please me i look good, or say im a good person, or something. right now the only thing keeping me alive is my parents and even they are fading away. i have completely accepted the pain that comes with death and am ready to face it. is there anyway for me to stop this and just go back to being a normal kid.
AnxiousMom2008-09-17T15:23:29Z
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Every person on this earth has something special about them. You just have to sit down and discover your speciality. You sound like you feel all alone. Go somewhere there are people doing things you are interested in... example, learn a new dance style, take up a ceramics class, go horseback riding, go to the YMCA. You get the idea. You are every bit as worthy as anyone you see. Put some value on yourself. Smile at yourself in the mirror even if you don't feel like it. Eventually your smile will be real. Be your own best friend. I think you are brave for putting your feelings out there and it would make me sad to hear you were no more. E-mail me if you wish. You are too precious to waste.
Hi. First of all, Please, please do not kill yourself. Please. If not for your parents or yourself do it for me. Because I, a stranger, do not want you to die. If you feel no one else cares, know that I do. Everyone has so much to offer, don't waste this precious thing we call life. I am young, I know what it's like to be sad and alone. To be honest, I've had life pretty good but I've had those times where you feel like curling up and dieing. But you just can't. You've got to keep going and make your life the best it can be. Use your potential. Surround yourself with life and beauty, do things you enjoy, listen to positive music(look up angels and airwaves; song The adventure) find people that truly care about you-and if you haven't found anyone worthy yet, you will. And of course, you have your parents =). Life is a crazy ride, but keep working at it. Don't lose hope, at the end of the day make sure that you've done all you can. I can reassure you right now that you are a wonderful person, but it really comes down to you accepting yourself. Love yourself. Become your own best friend. Hold your head high, never compromise yourself. Don't think about anymore. You are here for a reason. You have been given life. You are ALIVE. It's a one time deal, take every opportunity to make your life the best it can be. Take chances, watch the sun rise, go for a long walk, spend time with people less fortunate than you, volunteer at an animal shelter...pursue a dream. Live live live. Love. Try to laugh as much as you can. Go out there and make it happen. You are a person, here on earth with purpose, don't cut life short now, it is too precious to throw away.
Also, if you need someone to talk to you can email me at bsktballchic298@aim.com(dont email me on yahoo it doesnt work)...I'm here for you. Again, DON'T DO IT.
Can I try to scare you back to being what you call a normal kid? Because most kids want to die off and on all the time.
When you die, no one can tell you what is waiting on the other side or even guarantee there is another side. You don't want to jump from the frying pan into the fire. Eternity is a such an endless amount of time.
I can reassure you that anyone who writes as well as you do and picked those sunglasses to make people laugh, is a good person and we all need him here, beyond a doubt.
We all have those moments of weakness where we feel like we simply can't go on anymore. But truth is, we can. Think about all the people you will hurt and devestate expecailly your parents. They brought you into this world for a reason. As hard as it may sound you have to go out there and have fun....this is your life, you only get one....there is so much to see, touch and feel. Im sure you are an amazing person, i would honeslty love to know you.
Find what you love doing, and go out there an make something of yourself because we are all braver and stronger then we think. Once you find what you love....everything just kinda falls into place. The first step is to learn to love and find youself and also realize that life is gift, its a beautiful one and embrace it.
Here's my email, just in case you wanna talk more Joannemarie35@yahoo.com
Welcome to wherever you are This is your life; you made it this far Welcome, you gotta believe Right here, right now you're exactly where you're supposed to be Be who you want to be, be who you are Everyone's a hero, everyone's a star
When you wanna give up and your heart's about to break Remember that you're perfect; God makes no mistakes
you can be a normal kid if you choose to be a normal kid. you just need to think of all the good times in your life and try to have good things happen to you in the future.
i can tell you this...no matter what you are going through, you do not have it the worst. everyone at one point in their lives feel like they would want to die. but in the end...we are going to die anyways, right? thats why you need to embrace LIFE, because if you are going to the other side eventually, you might as well enjoy your life to the fullest. dont give up.