would you break up with your boyfriend over this? please help ?

my boyfriend have been dating for a year and a few days now but ever since we hit one years he has been acting totally werid.. MEAN, gross, like farting and burping around me.. more like in my face! putting his chewed up food in my face, wiping it on me.. its kinda like im just now seeing who he really is. yesterday he made me cry and right now i feel like crying. hes been hurting me emotionally alot lately and he's being really un-sensitive to me and my feelings. like he just doesnt care.. like i said since we hit one year things haven't been good at all. and he and i live to two different towns ( we go to school together ) so we aren't able to see each other at all over the weekend, really the only time we get together is what we have at school and he wasted the only class we have together ( 1 1/2 hr. ) and we only have 5 periods a day and i only get to see him at the locker between classes til third period then i dont even get to see him at all for the rest of the day..

and btw; im being really nice to him and pretty much kissing his freaking A$$ just to get him not sad or whatever.. hah more like just to talk to me..
should i break up with him? is it worth it? its been a whole year.. what do you think? Thanks.

2008-09-19T07:13:27Z

yeah funny things is ofor our annivsary he told me he was going to get me flowers ect ect... nad you know what i got? NOTHING. then the next day he told me that he was ging to get me a card... also nnothing

Audrey2008-09-19T07:09:58Z

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Maybe he's just going through a phase or something. That seems unusal.
Congrats on your one year anniversary but dang, he's kinda ruining that.
:(

Anonymous2008-09-19T07:22:38Z

It sounds to me like the fact you have been together for a considerable amount of time now, is having a negative effect on him. He sounds scared to me, maybe because it's hit him that this is a serious relationship, and that can be a frightening prospect for many men. You should not be 'kissing his ***' to stop him from acting like a jerk, you need to be strong and have respect for yourself and what you deserve from the person you are with. I would recommend trying to get some time with him alone, in which you ask him why he's behaving in such an insensitive and immature manner. If his behaviour has come on really suddenly, then I definately suspect that he is trying to assert some freedom in, what he percieves to be, a situation in which he is being tied down. Tell him that if he doesn't start treating you in the way in which you deserve, then you'll break it off. There's no point in staying with someone who treats you badly, no matter how long you have been together.

Maddox (Mother To Luka..)2008-09-19T07:23:07Z

we can not really ell you for sure if you should dump him or not, but just for a second sit down and imagine would you want to spend rest of your life with him? if Yes than you have to try to find some kind of Solution if no just tell me why are you waisting your life and time and nerves?

he was gonna gt you flowers? If he wanted he should get you and not tell you he was gonna get them
same with the card

Congrats on your Bday may the Next year this time you will be happilyy in love with a most romantic guy in the world!

Anonymous2008-09-19T13:35:10Z

Talk to him about it first. Basically, he's just starting to feel really comfortable around you (which is a good thing). However, he's starting to blow it out of proportion and taking advantage of the secure relationship he feels he has with you. So, just tell him that you don't appreciate that kind of behavior and if he continues to do that stuff around you ON PURPOSE, then you may wanna go your separate ways. I mean, if he accidentally just lets out a fart around you, that's nothing to break up with him over.

tolerably so2008-09-19T07:12:27Z

Talk to him about it and tell him that you don't like it when he does that because it makes you feel like _____ (whatever). Tell him that you don't understand why he is being like that because that doesn't seem like him at all. Ask him why he is acting like that and why his behavior has suddenly changed all of the sudden. I mean it is understandable for him to be like farting and burping by now in front of you but doing that in your face and junk isn't cool.

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