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would you break up with your boyfriend over this? please help ?

my boyfriend have been dating for a year and a few days now but ever since we hit one years he has been acting totally werid.. MEAN, gross, like farting and burping around me.. more like in my face! putting his chewed up food in my face, wiping it on me.. its kinda like im just now seeing who he really is. yesterday he made me cry and right now i feel like crying. hes been hurting me emotionally alot lately and he's being really un-sensitive to me and my feelings. like he just doesnt care.. like i said since we hit one year things haven't been good at all. and he and i live to two different towns ( we go to school together ) so we aren't able to see each other at all over the weekend, really the only time we get together is what we have at school and he wasted the only class we have together ( 1 1/2 hr. ) and we only have 5 periods a day and i only get to see him at the locker between classes til third period then i dont even get to see him at all for the rest of the day..

and btw; im being really nice to him and pretty much kissing his freaking A$$ just to get him not sad or whatever.. hah more like just to talk to me..

should i break up with him? is it worth it? its been a whole year.. what do you think? Thanks.

Update:

yeah funny things is ofor our annivsary he told me he was going to get me flowers ect ect... nad you know what i got? NOTHING. then the next day he told me that he was ging to get me a card... also nnothing

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Maybe he's just going through a phase or something. That seems unusal.

    Congrats on your one year anniversary but dang, he's kinda ruining that.

    :(

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    It sounds to me like the fact you have been together for a considerable amount of time now, is having a negative effect on him. He sounds scared to me, maybe because it's hit him that this is a serious relationship, and that can be a frightening prospect for many men. You should not be 'kissing his ***' to stop him from acting like a jerk, you need to be strong and have respect for yourself and what you deserve from the person you are with. I would recommend trying to get some time with him alone, in which you ask him why he's behaving in such an insensitive and immature manner. If his behaviour has come on really suddenly, then I definately suspect that he is trying to assert some freedom in, what he percieves to be, a situation in which he is being tied down. Tell him that if he doesn't start treating you in the way in which you deserve, then you'll break it off. There's no point in staying with someone who treats you badly, no matter how long you have been together.

  • we can not really ell you for sure if you should dump him or not, but just for a second sit down and imagine would you want to spend rest of your life with him? if Yes than you have to try to find some kind of Solution if no just tell me why are you waisting your life and time and nerves?

    he was gonna gt you flowers? If he wanted he should get you and not tell you he was gonna get them

    same with the card

    Congrats on your Bday may the Next year this time you will be happilyy in love with a most romantic guy in the world!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Talk to him about it first. Basically, he's just starting to feel really comfortable around you (which is a good thing). However, he's starting to blow it out of proportion and taking advantage of the secure relationship he feels he has with you. So, just tell him that you don't appreciate that kind of behavior and if he continues to do that stuff around you ON PURPOSE, then you may wanna go your separate ways. I mean, if he accidentally just lets out a fart around you, that's nothing to break up with him over.

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  • 1 decade ago

    Talk to him about it and tell him that you don't like it when he does that because it makes you feel like _____ (whatever). Tell him that you don't understand why he is being like that because that doesn't seem like him at all. Ask him why he is acting like that and why his behavior has suddenly changed all of the sudden. I mean it is understandable for him to be like farting and burping by now in front of you but doing that in your face and junk isn't cool.

  • 1 decade ago

    Yes dear...It is time to move on; he sounds very immature and if you can't see each other anyway there is no sense in continuing the relationship.

    He may be trying to get you to break up with him if he is acting like this anyway because he doesn't know how to break up with you.

    good luck

  • I think he's showing you his true colors because he's much more comfortable with you. Personally, I wouldn't tolerate this type of immature behavior from anyone... especially a BF. If it's bothering you so much that your'e getting emotional, it's time to tell him that you're not seeing eye-to-eye and go your separate ways.

  • 1 decade ago

    Of course, what the hell is wrong with you. Don't let that guy treat you like that cause it's disgusting. If he really likes you, he wouldn't be treating you like that. I think that after you guys been together for 1 year, he's fed up and wants you to break up with him. Think about it.

  • 1 decade ago

    yo, to be honest.. you gotta dump this guy... he's not worth of making you sad.. i mean, come on, think back, is it worth of makin you sad?

    there is a great chance he is dating another girl. its in my opinion. dont take it personally.. you should just let your feelings out to him the next time you see him and then just, break up with him. for me, its not worth it. well, its up to you.. good luck..

  • talk to him about it and see if he saids anything to u about it it sound to me hes acting so inmature and needs to grow up and learn how to care about ur feelings and care about u and if he doesn't say anything then give him time to think it over and he still doens the gross things he does then its time to let him go.

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