Is this jealous and if it is, why did I get jealous? Can we get past this?
We have this couple friend that are no longer a couple. The guy in our friends relationship got a new girlfriend. The old girlfriend and her really like eachother, so my husband went out and met her with our guy friend. He called me on the way home and told me how funny she is and how I'd really like her too. I didn't react very well. And I don't understand why. He and I always wanted the two to get back together so it is a little weird for a new girl to be in the picture. But why did it bother me that he had a great time with our friend and his new girlfriend? He thinks I was jealous that he had a good time without me. I can't figure it out. I feel even worse because he praised me the whole night and was so excited to have met another "couple friend." I don't know why I acted this way. Any thoughts?
Basically my husband went out with our friend of our and he had a wonderful time! Which is fine! I have no problems with that. My husband said my tone changed when I learned that our friends girlfriend came along. He thinks I was jealous of that, but I don't know if that was it. He praised her saying how much I'd like her and he even praised me to her the whole night. Now it has really affected us. I think he thinks I lost faith in him. I didn't but I don't understand why I reacted so badlly.
Basically my husband went out with our friend of our and he had a wonderful time! Which is fine! I have no problems with that. My husband said my tone changed when I learned that our friends girlfriend came along. He thinks I was jealous of that, but I don't know if that was it. He praised her saying how much I'd like her and he even praised me to her the whole night. Now it has really affected us. I think he thinks I lost faith in him. I didn't but I don't understand why I reacted so badlly.
Basically my husband went out with our friend of our and he had a wonderful time! Which is fine! I have no problems with that. My husband said my tone changed when I learned that our friends girlfriend came along. He thinks I was jealous of that, but I don't know if that was it. He praised her saying how much I'd like her and he even praised me to her the whole night. Now it has really affected us. I think he thinks I lost faith in him. I didn't but I don't understand why I reacted so badlly.