He told me " it's him not me" what that suppose to mean?
i know him for 5 years but we been together this summer we just fine he use to say he loves me, he misses me, im the one n recently he doesnt say it anymore n now he dont pick up his phone calls or call me back yesterday he told its him not me what that suppose to mean
In life you will realise that the people you meet have a purpose, Some were put there to test you, Some would use you, Some would teach you, and Some would bring out the better if not the best in you. Some may even cause you pain n heartache but one must learn to move on. So pray for the people who can't treat you right, and thank God for those who love you back and see your worth.
i can't blame you for feeling confused. didn't he tell you what it is exactly he's referring to?
however thinking back from when guys said the same thing to me (several times), i'm pretty sure it meant that he's confused about things. that there's nothing wrong with you but he's not sure what he wants. that usually is the case with guys. so he may need some space.
he DOES owe you a proper explanation though, and i suggest you meet him to talk about exactly where you both stand in this situation, so that you can be sure he's not trying to take advantage of you or take you for a ride.
he's being a jerk. Ask him what he means by that first. Maybe he just saw you as a summer fling, and you deserve better! write him a note or leave a simple message asking . If he doesn't respond then move on, he isnt worth your time or energy.
That's his pathetic way of breaking things off with you. He just isn't man enough to come out and say he doesn't want to see you anymore. Do yourself a favor and tell him he's right, it is him and you deserve someone more mature.