Picky eater here, please help!!?
My son is 21 months and we have major eating issues. He does not like to eat. All he wants is milk. Period. Sometimes, he will eat, and then he'll go days without eating anything substantial. I am at my witt's end. I know if I continue to make this a battle of wills, nothing will change.
Okay, this week he has had a cold and cough, so I can understand if he has no appetite. Today he had one little cup of applesauce and severl ounces of milk. Yesterday he had the applesauce and cheerios and cups of milk. The boy hates food! No one believes me. Currently he won't eat:
any veggie or fruit (aside from applesauce)
hot dogs
chicken nuggets
mac and cheese
other real cheese
pasta
ground meat
chicken
bread/toast
crackers
yoghurt
etc...
what he will eat:
milk
cheerios
applesauce
SOme of the food from the "won't eat" list, he used to eat at one point, but no longer will try it. Mostly, whenever I serve him dinner/lunch/breakfast/snack he just throws it all on the floor without touching a thing. I've also tried feeding him while he is on the floor or couch.
He is gaining weight and looks healthy otherwise. I feel like we've had issues with food from day one as he hated breast feeding and rejected my attempts to nurse. And it took until he was way past 12 months before he could even eat anything other than stage 2 food without choking and gagging it all back up.
Is there anyone else who has had similar issues with their toddlers? I feel like such a failure. I don't know what to do, please help.
I'm afraid if I don't feed him- including milk- he won't care. It's rare he even acts hungry when I know he must be.
He will not drink anything other than milk. I would LOVE for him to drink water or juice. I actually water down his milk so he thinks it's milk when it's mostly water. I do mainly feed him what we are eating, and even with him sitting at the table with us, he won't eat. He just throws the food on the floor. Like tonight- we had spaghetti (he loved this just 2 months ago) and he wanted nothing to do with it.