What would you do in this situation? Sorry it's lengthy?

I am 28 weeks pregnant and it's already getting harder and harder to walk. The doctor says it's "round ligament pain" and tells me to just take it easy and that I will be fine. Anyway the situation is that because we moved I started working about 7 weeks ago. I have worked at this job before. It's just a call center. However, we live 20 miles away from the town where my work is. My husband's work is in the opposite direction. We only have one car. So he takes me to work and drops me off then takes the kids to my mother's We pay her 100 dollars a week to watch the kids. Between the gas and the childcare we aren't really breaking even with me working.

I would be fine with quitting and I think we could afford things better. However, my husband is worried about what will happen when I'm at home with the kids all day. When I was staying home before I was in the throes of Postpartum Depression and I was crying, angry, and suicidal and ended up spending a night in the hospital because of it. That was last spring/summer, when our little one was first born. He is now 11 months old and my oldest is 3 years old, and like I said I'm 28 weeks. I have not had depression symptoms for awhile and I ran out of antidepressants when I was about 20 weeks and never refilled them.

So, what do you think. Any answers would be appreciated.

2009-01-19T21:37:40Z

Oh, we live in a town with less than 300 people. The only businesses here are the post office, the library and the city hall. The store just closed down right before the holidays, so there really is no "close to home" option.

Anonymous2009-01-19T21:57:31Z

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I honestly think you should just be a stay at home mommy.

If your not even breaking even, it's not worth working if you are going to be in financial strife.

Or better yet, you could have a stay at home job.

I myself am a tutor, and have 10 children come here throughout the week, after school hours, and it does not get wonderful money, but it certainly helps us out!
I applied for my ABN, and there was no start up costs.
You don't even really have to go that far...just helping a child with there homework really helps both you, and the child out.

It's all up to you of course.

?2009-01-19T21:25:24Z

Can you find a job closer to home that is part time when your husband gets home? That is what I decided on when I found out I was pregnant this time around. I work just 4pm-8pm 5 nights a week and my husband works until 3:30pm and it has worked perfect for us.

USAF wife # 2 due in june2009-01-19T21:25:32Z

I woluld say stay home. If you start to go down hill or need help you do have your mother and possibly some other family to maybe come help here and there.