i think i am depressed but i don't have time for such trivialities..i am a single mom no luck at all with men and frankly don't think anyone will ever love me again.i work my *** off,When i am home im tired and my kids have no one but me to love them.
i am sad.any tips.
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i suggest changing your attitude by changing your life style such as getting out with your children and doing things, even if its a walk, the mall, social gatherings with positive people only,hang out with friends that may know a guy to hook you up, but don't ever come on with a desperate attitude.exercise at home,keep in shape with good foods for you and children and on and on, try to find some time for yourself,
nabiya
Try some serious positive self talk. Look in the mirror and tell yourself.
"I am a valuable person. God has chosen me to be the mother of these beautiful children. I am tired, but my life has purpose." Etc. You get the idea...and it DOES have purpose! Every MOM is valuable..every MOM has purpose! Every mom also feels overwhelmed..especially single moms. You are not alone... even if it feels that way. Do you want a man in your life? If you are tired and don't need to emotional turmoil... girlfriends are good for the soul too! The right man will come along when you least expect him. And you'll know he's right when you are not concerned with him loving you as much as you are about YOU lloving him. (Love is a choice not a feeling...that is the kind that lasts...okay feelings are good too but feelings go up and down...)
Hang in there and enjoy your time with your kids... they grow up too fast! God bless!
Pascal P
Well yes it's sad . sorry you are going through this . sometimes it's just
nice to talk about it .now don't say no one will ever love you ,you just got the wrong guy's ,someday love will find you keep the faith
griggle
sounds like stress. take a weekend for yourself. relax. leave kids with a relative. as for luck with men, you might do better if did seem less stressed out.
Anonymous
go to a class for single mom.... what are they called? o ya! support groups.... this will make you feel comforted and help you feel less lonely! good luck