depressed, depressed, depressed! please help?

when i was younger i was sexually abused my father was extremely abusive when he was home and not with his other family i had friends but the never knew the kind of pain i was going through and when i was 14 my parents got divorced and we had to move from our big house into a tiny apartment so i was suffering from depression and i took a bottle of prescription pills and tylenol pm's and tried to kill myself and i am so grateful everyday of my life that i lived! i know right now it may seem like you have no reason for living that you are severing no purpose or as i used to say about myself you feel you are a waste of space and oxygen but believe me as much as you feel things will never change and you can't go on with the same sh!t day after day the same boring life that you feel will never get better so you should just end it trust me you would be so surprised when you start to take notice how much your life changes on just a weekly bases. at 21 you have so much more to live for, some people have their life cut short so you should appreciate yours while you still have it. i remember what it's like to be in that place where you can't even listen to a song or watch the tv with that blank stare thinking that your life is so bad you can't even enjoy the little things in life trust me i know that horrible feeling, but life as i have learned is such a precious thing and you may feel differently now but one day i'm sure you realize your life has meaning. you have forever to die but only a short time to live so please enjoy your life.

I work at a place that I don't like because I turned down a position I thought was wrong for me and now I may lose my present job. I was being pressured to take the other position although I did not want it. ihave very little money and don't know what the heck I am going to do. I have bills to pay. I don't like the way my life is going. My mother has been suffereing from depression for as long as I can remember. She goes in and out of the hospital. I worry about her. I worry about my families future. As we do not have a lot, and I has though I found a great job, but I was wrong. I go to work now miserable and feeling ackward because people who use to talk to me treat me differetly now, because I do not want the new position. I see no need to take a job I will dislike. So either way I would have to leave. So I guess I am saying other people have problems too. I feel your pain and sometimes I think this world is messed up.

Charlotte, please please don't ever feel alone. there is always someone who will share your problems and listen to your troubles. I am 56 and have been depressed for most of my life, and I like you have often thought how lovely it would be to just end it all. But I know there are people who love me and I can't do that to them. I know the grief and hurt they would feel and it would be my fault so I just keep going and I try to make life better for others in some little way. This helps me to cope with my problems a little easier.

Two weeks ago my hustband and I had to take our rottweiller of 11 years to the vet to be put to sleep and it tore my heart to pieces. He was our baby as all our children are grown and left the nest. And he was so close to us. Both my husband and I are still grieving now and talk about Bruce every day. we have gotten another rottweiler which our children bought my husband for fathers day. And he will take a lot of loving and training as he is only a pup. But That is how we are coping just now.

What you have to do is find something that you want to do that you CAN do for others who in turn will repay your kindness with love and understanding. I am sure when you get the contact with your cpn you will find it amazing. The things that you will do together and just being able to talk to her will make things so much better for you.

Mostly you must realize that you are important and God loves you. Your life is a precious gift to treasure, and each trial we have makes us stronger. We have to know sorrow to know joy. That is how I look at life.

If you want to write to me again you can. I will look out for your question.

I hope I have been of some help to you.

Why do you hate yourself and angry, has something happened in the past or present to make you feel the way you do, life is worth more than killing yourself why don't you try your hardest to make yourself a lot happier or do you feel as though people mis-understands you and take thing's the Wrong way when you try to explain how you feel and feel as though everyone is against you for some unknown reason, I Will always be here on Yahoo to try and help out and try give the right answers but can't always guarantee that it's the correct answer and I can only try and come up with the right answer hopefully :0)

hello there . i am from iraq. my dad my mom my sister my brother they were all killed in one day , if you were in my place right now you will be killing your self , there is lots of joy in life , but time to time we forget to taste them , so take it easy and try to get a job do not depend on the anti depression what so ever. try have sport or at least jog for 30 minute you feel better , get a job go out try to have some freinds around, if you kille your self you will lose thats all , try to enjoy this period of this time , dont think a lot , what if you are in my place what would you do , do you know how horrible time i been through , be a bigger man ok

Looks like you need to change the environment you are living in. Depression is usually the product of the setting you are living in. Stop drinking and seek help. Ashwaghanda is a good natural anti-depressant.

Wow, you know your the 1st person that can make your self feel better more than us. (people who answer)

Just change the way you think. Think of good things. Think that it's not fair to live like this and treat my self like this when all the other people are having a good time in life.

Be Strong and fight your bad thoughts.

Go out have fun, be nice to your family, talk to them, they'll support you.

Have fun in life. Live every moment of your life as if it were your very last moment cuz after all we only live once. So appreciate life. Don't be in a hurry to death. When a person's time comes, it comes on it's own.

Get up stand high, open your eyes and wake up!! Don't waste anymore moments feeling bad. And trust me, when you'll get better, you're gonna laugh at yourself for being like this.

I want you to know that someone out there in this world (me) is thinking of you!!

I hope I helped

God bless.

mail me back and i can help you take on step ata time so you can get started in the right direction. ive died a few times and been to hell even more so i can show you there is a life that you can live without all teh bad vibes

You'll be better soon.

Go to church. Live for GOD.