Well a while back I overheard my gf telling someone that he bf isnt romantic either (which would be me). So, now I have been thinkin of putting together a little night for us two. I think I am gonna take her to dinner, and then rent a hotel room that overlooks the city. Any ideas on things I can do, or buy that would me it really romantic. thanks in advance.
RyanT
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you can buy candles and light them lots of them and a nice cup of wine. make sure you're dress hot. and try cooking the food yourself. they say, " a way to a woman's heart is through her stomach". buy a red rose. you can get one just one(you're different, usually people will get a bouquet). lights gotta be dim.
make sure you have tissues and water ready. by the bed. but let's keep the tissues out of sight.
but most importantly, make sure you really love this girl. look into her eyes and say it.
hope this helps
Anonymous
Well, if you really wanna be romantic organize a dinner in your place(she wouldn't mind that it's not in some fancy restaurant unless she's materialistic lol :P ) That way you two can be alone. A few candles, quiet romantic music....wait for a good moment to give her a rose or something like that. Girls fall for sensitive guys....and tell her that you love her, it means a lot to a girl when she hears a guy say it (but only if you mean it, coz if you don't love her you might hurt her later and you'll be a liar) And in future if you wanna be romantic, just do similar stuff , take her somewhere you two can be alone, talk to her, give her gifts(they don't have to be expensive, flowers, chocolates,some cute necklace...)
Hope i helped :)
Anonymous
I think that Romance is difficult for men to do. It is more inherent to women. However, here are a few suggestions:
1. Rent the room b/4 she gets there, bring music and have it playing softly when you get to the room.
2. One single red rose on the bed at an angle is beautiful.
3. If you get a room with a whirlpool tub, get a few candles, I would say, put them around the tub, but from past experience, if you get "out of control" someones hair could catch on fire and there goes the mood. Put them on the sink. Just one day when the two of you are out, ask her to come with you, you've been thinking of buying some candles for your place but you wanted her input. That way she can smell tell you which ones are her favorite and HOPEFULLY you will like them as well. Set them on the counter or wherever you do not think it would be hazardous, and when y'all get in the bathroom, light them and turn the light out.
4. While in the tub, consider this foreplay, get some of the same smell body soap and wash her back and if she stands on her feet all day her feet as well. Make certain you take your time, very important, take your time.....and run your hands over her body and hopefully, and I would be shocked if she did not reciprocate (however if you don't like that scent bring something manly with you for her to wash you deliberatly slow in some places.
5. When you get out and you are drying each other off, maybe get behind her at the mirror, watch out for the candles, and let nature take it's course.
6. If she is not too heavy, and I am not saying that to be insulting, but some women are heavy, pick her up and bring her to the bed.
7. There, have a little card under her pillow, yep one of those "romantic card about how much she means to you, for her to find, If you have to leave a little bit of it poking out from the pillow.
8. Remember the music, but by now, things should be rolling right along.
9. Spend the entire night, if she is willing, sleeping and waking up and M*****g Lo**. And falling asleep in each other's arms.
10. If possible, while she is still asleep, pack the bags and like I said IF SHE IS STILL NOT AWAKE, carry them to the car with a change of clothes for her to put on.
11. Perhaps top it off with a nice breakfast, if either one of you is a breakfast person.
12. Otherwise take her home, or not, and tell her that you had an awesome time and that she awakened something inside of you that you simply can't put a name on.
13. Very Important...last step #12. Only say this if you mean it! If not, don't set either her or you up for failure. If you are really not "in love" with her in that way, just say I had an awdsome time with you and I hope that you will think of me all day and all night. I am tired, so I am going to go hope and lie in my bed and get some sleep.
14. If she is any kind of a woman she will reciprocate in every single thing that you do
Good luck my friend and keep me posted, if you liked my idea's on how it worked....................
Blessings to you both!
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Hmm.. ya know..
honestly, it depends
on what you KNOW your
girlfriend is into. how long
you guys have been dating,
how open she is to certain
romantic things, etc.
I, personally, like really simple things.
And when I am very emotionally and
mentally connected to a guy, I'm up
for anyything. Nomatter how corny
or romantic.
Anyways: I think it's soo thoughtful
and considerate and sweet of you
to be doing this. Any girl would be
lucky to have a boyfriend who is
trying harder to satisfy her. hehe
I do like the idea of the dinner
and hotel. But, make it a surprise.
Wait for when you think will be
the perfect time to do something like this.
Timing is soo important, because
it can really make something even more
special! .. I'd want a guy to take me
to a restaurant that he's never taken me
before (reservations!) AND it'd be sweet
if he knew what foods I liked and lookd up
the selections on the internet in preparation
and suggests that I order that when we're there
It's hot when a guy knows what he's doing.
After food, the mood is very relaxed,
and it's time for something a little adventurous
but still very tranquil. Like, a walk around
the city. The hotel you booked in advance?
It'd be cute to put some kind of present in there
for her before you guys had even gotten there!
You could hide it under the sheets, leave it
on the bed! Ideas of presents? Get her
something she'd love. Plan some activities
you guys could do together in the hotel!
Be creative! bring your laptop with some
romantic movies/movies you guys always
planned to watch together! (Some hotels
don't have dvd players and such, so make
sure to have that all planned out). You
could bring a favorite board game. Or
if you wanna be really "fun" - go to spencers
and scope out some "fun" games! hehe.
Also, KNOW where you want the
most "special part" of the night to be.
For example: the walk around the city/other,
or if you actually want everything fun to be
at the hotel. This is important if you want
to get her a present!
If the "walk around the city" is the climax,
then it can be assumed that you guys
will be back at the hotel a little later...
and it'd be totally appropriate to put
a little present for her when you guys get there.
If, however, most of the fun is gonna be at the hotel,
it would be supercute to wake up to
a teddy bear next to me with a note.
And finding that my man woke up before
I did! Basically, though, you don't want her
to get the present before the climax, unless
it's something she can wear. cause then
the present will just lie around doing nothing.
It'd also be really romantic if he
decided to share something he really
liked/is passionate about/is from his
childhood. <3 Like, if he decided to
show drive me around the city,
and show me where his old house was,
or where he used to go to play ball, or
take me to a museum he always wanted
to go to.. something like that !
ALSO! Make sure this is a surprise.
Dont' tell her what you have planned
for her! But make sure she knows that
something's up so that other plans
don't interfere! Oh yes! Make sure
both cell phones are off too. :) The
whole night should be just you two.
Perfect thing for the next morning?
Pure fun! :)
msballentine
The dinner and hotel room rental sounds like a really great plan. Get a really nice suite, one with a great jacuzzi, some expensive wine and put rose petals all over the bed. She'll enjoy it, she'll think it's really romantic. Also, light a few candles.