I Need help being romantic!!?

you can buy candles and light them lots of them and a nice cup of wine. make sure you're dress hot. and try cooking the food yourself. they say, " a way to a woman's heart is through her stomach". buy a red rose. you can get one just one(you're different, usually people will get a bouquet). lights gotta be dim.

make sure you have tissues and water ready. by the bed. but let's keep the tissues out of sight.

but most importantly, make sure you really love this girl. look into her eyes and say it.

hope this helps

Well, if you really wanna be romantic organize a dinner in your place(she wouldn't mind that it's not in some fancy restaurant unless she's materialistic lol :P ) That way you two can be alone. A few candles, quiet romantic music....wait for a good moment to give her a rose or something like that. Girls fall for sensitive guys....and tell her that you love her, it means a lot to a girl when she hears a guy say it (but only if you mean it, coz if you don't love her you might hurt her later and you'll be a liar) And in future if you wanna be romantic, just do similar stuff , take her somewhere you two can be alone, talk to her, give her gifts(they don't have to be expensive, flowers, chocolates,some cute necklace...)

Hope i helped :)

I think that Romance is difficult for men to do. It is more inherent to women. However, here are a few suggestions:

1. Rent the room b/4 she gets there, bring music and have it playing softly when you get to the room.

2. One single red rose on the bed at an angle is beautiful.

3. If you get a room with a whirlpool tub, get a few candles, I would say, put them around the tub, but from past experience, if you get "out of control" someones hair could catch on fire and there goes the mood. Put them on the sink. Just one day when the two of you are out, ask her to come with you, you've been thinking of buying some candles for your place but you wanted her input. That way she can smell tell you which ones are her favorite and HOPEFULLY you will like them as well. Set them on the counter or wherever you do not think it would be hazardous, and when y'all get in the bathroom, light them and turn the light out.

4. While in the tub, consider this foreplay, get some of the same smell body soap and wash her back and if she stands on her feet all day her feet as well. Make certain you take your time, very important, take your time.....and run your hands over her body and hopefully, and I would be shocked if she did not reciprocate (however if you don't like that scent bring something manly with you for her to wash you deliberatly slow in some places.

5. When you get out and you are drying each other off, maybe get behind her at the mirror, watch out for the candles, and let nature take it's course.

6. If she is not too heavy, and I am not saying that to be insulting, but some women are heavy, pick her up and bring her to the bed.

7. There, have a little card under her pillow, yep one of those "romantic card about how much she means to you, for her to find, If you have to leave a little bit of it poking out from the pillow.

8. Remember the music, but by now, things should be rolling right along.

9. Spend the entire night, if she is willing, sleeping and waking up and M*****g Lo**. And falling asleep in each other's arms.

10. If possible, while she is still asleep, pack the bags and like I said IF SHE IS STILL NOT AWAKE, carry them to the car with a change of clothes for her to put on.

11. Perhaps top it off with a nice breakfast, if either one of you is a breakfast person.

12. Otherwise take her home, or not, and tell her that you had an awesome time and that she awakened something inside of you that you simply can't put a name on.

13. Very Important...last step #12. Only say this if you mean it! If not, don't set either her or you up for failure. If you are really not "in love" with her in that way, just say I had an awdsome time with you and I hope that you will think of me all day and all night. I am tired, so I am going to go hope and lie in my bed and get some sleep.

14. If she is any kind of a woman she will reciprocate in every single thing that you do

Good luck my friend and keep me posted, if you liked my idea's on how it worked....................

Blessings to you both!

Hmm.. ya know..

honestly, it depends

on what you KNOW your

girlfriend is into. how long

you guys have been dating,

how open she is to certain

romantic things, etc.

I, personally, like really simple things.

And when I am very emotionally and

mentally connected to a guy, I'm up

for anyything. Nomatter how corny

or romantic.

Anyways: I think it's soo thoughtful

and considerate and sweet of you

to be doing this. Any girl would be

lucky to have a boyfriend who is

trying harder to satisfy her. hehe

I do like the idea of the dinner

and hotel. But, make it a surprise.

Wait for when you think will be

the perfect time to do something like this.

Timing is soo important, because

it can really make something even more

special! .. I'd want a guy to take me

to a restaurant that he's never taken me

before (reservations!) AND it'd be sweet

if he knew what foods I liked and lookd up

the selections on the internet in preparation

and suggests that I order that when we're there

It's hot when a guy knows what he's doing.

After food, the mood is very relaxed,

and it's time for something a little adventurous

but still very tranquil. Like, a walk around

the city. The hotel you booked in advance?

It'd be cute to put some kind of present in there

for her before you guys had even gotten there!

You could hide it under the sheets, leave it

on the bed! Ideas of presents? Get her

something she'd love. Plan some activities

you guys could do together in the hotel!

Be creative! bring your laptop with some

romantic movies/movies you guys always

planned to watch together! (Some hotels

don't have dvd players and such, so make

sure to have that all planned out). You

could bring a favorite board game. Or

if you wanna be really "fun" - go to spencers

and scope out some "fun" games! hehe.

Also, KNOW where you want the

most "special part" of the night to be.

For example: the walk around the city/other,

or if you actually want everything fun to be

at the hotel. This is important if you want

to get her a present!

If the "walk around the city" is the climax,

then it can be assumed that you guys

will be back at the hotel a little later...

and it'd be totally appropriate to put

a little present for her when you guys get there.

If, however, most of the fun is gonna be at the hotel,

it would be supercute to wake up to

a teddy bear next to me with a note.

And finding that my man woke up before

I did! Basically, though, you don't want her

to get the present before the climax, unless

it's something she can wear. cause then

the present will just lie around doing nothing.

It'd also be really romantic if he

decided to share something he really

liked/is passionate about/is from his

childhood. <3 Like, if he decided to

show drive me around the city,

and show me where his old house was,

or where he used to go to play ball, or

take me to a museum he always wanted

to go to.. something like that !

ALSO! Make sure this is a surprise.

Dont' tell her what you have planned

for her! But make sure she knows that

something's up so that other plans

don't interfere! Oh yes! Make sure

both cell phones are off too. :) The

whole night should be just you two.

Perfect thing for the next morning?

Pure fun! :)

The dinner and hotel room rental sounds like a really great plan. Get a really nice suite, one with a great jacuzzi, some expensive wine and put rose petals all over the bed. She'll enjoy it, she'll think it's really romantic. Also, light a few candles.

Have dinner before sunset, then take her for a walk, get someone to put your gifts near by a beautiful view of the sunset, (ask her to close her eyes) then ask her to open her eyes to a single rose and a jewelry box, hold her close look deep into her eyes and tell her much you love and appreciate her, tell her that you got her the single rose to signify singleness of heart between you two, kiss her like you mean it, then hold her close and finish watching the sunset. then take her to the hotel room where the bed is covered in roses, HAVE FUN ohh make sure you give her a massage in the process.

think long term...women are so encouraged by things their men do on a daily basis. dinner & a hotel room are nice but not really creative and then i'd think...he's warming me up to get sex, ya know?

listen to your girlfriend & then put your own spin on it. if she says that she loves flowers, then bring her a different flower (only one) each day of the week. thats is so sexy.

kiss her, hug her and hold her like its the last time you'll ever see her. plus, the sex will just be amazing that way...(tmi, i know)! good luck!!!

hmmmm, buy her roses.

hold her hand alot, give her kissies! but dont over do it.

whisper sweet tings in her ear and make her feel so speceal and she'll become more attatched.

and maybe yall will kiss, and lead to something else.

it'll show her you really care and love her for who she is as a person.

red roses=love,heart box with chocolates inside,big teddy bear or her fave animal preferably pink and the dinner and hotel thing is great!you are romantic you just didnt know that your gf wanted it

a dozen roses for her and a box of chocolate. doesn't matter if its cliche its soooo romantic!