Did I do the right thing?! I broke up with him!?

I have been thinking about it since more than 2 months now. I n my bf were trying to make a long distance relationship happen, but I guess I was missing out on the fun in life. Being loyal takes more than just the word itself!! I dont kno why I did that, but I feel bad for doing that , yet I am glad that I am single again! He loved me a lot!

Anonymous2009-05-20T18:05:39Z

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I think what you're feeling is guilt for breaking up with him - and not regret. You have to decide which of those things you are feeling. But I'll tell you what to do with either emotion.
If you are just feeling guilt - that will go away. Like you said, he really loved you a lot, and so since you were the one that broke off the relationship - of course you're gonna feel some guilt! That's normal and it will go away. Just remind yourself of how hard long distance relationships are. You really have to have a very strong bond to make that work. And remind yourself that now you both can find someone close to be with and in the long run - be happier with since you won't have distance and all the problems that entails.
But, if you're feeling regret - then I'm sorry. You can try talking to him - telling him that you just freaked out about the distance, and realized right away it was a mistake. Tell him you want to make it work and that you just didn't know how to deal with it - but now you want to learn how.