Does anyone have any exp w/ totally BORING virgo men, or is it just me?

I'm an Aquarian in a serious relationship with a Virgo man... and although he was fun and rockin when I first met him, I just feel like he's a complete dud now... do you think it's just because we've been living together for 6 months... and he's comfortable and feels secure in my love for him, or WHAT? I'm 25 and he'll be 37 this year... and I just feel like I'm aging WAY beyond my years.... I'm responsible and everything, but I'm still just a big kid... and he claims his inner demon ate his inner child years ago... (like when he was 12).... I dunno.... I love him sincerely, but GOD! EverQuest and tv just AREN'T enough!!! Can anyone sympothyze? A little help? A little advice? O, and is it normal for men that age to have a low sex drive? I never feel like I'm getting enough....

Ta-da!2009-07-02T20:24:38Z

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I saw "boring" and "Virgo" together and instantly knew you were an Aquarius.

Virgos just don't feel like every moment of their lives needs to be a roller coaster to be enjoyable, in fact chaos is usually frustrating to Virgos, they work hard to make the most out of everything. Too much unpredictability is for a Virgo like making a fire from scratch on a camping trip and some idiot comes along and throws a bucket of water on it and all they have to say is "Ha! Lighten up!" "But it's gonna be cold and dark soon!! And I spent an hour collecting the wood and lighting that! Now what do we cook the food on!?" Virgos (generally speaking) are about maintaining inner peace to be able to think clearly and understand everything as it is.

You might not understand, but not living in extremes and allowing yourself down time isn't going to kill you. It can be nice to get a little peace and quiet every now and then.

But yeah, you're 2 different age groups.

Cilantro2009-07-02T20:47:23Z

LOL! My uncle is Virgo and not the most interesting of people. He tends to think what he finds interesting, everyone should too..but bless his heart, he is kind and loving. :o)

As far as Virgo/Aqua together in a relationship, I wouldn't know. I do know though that Aqua are celebral people so whenever they feel a disconnect there, things can go down hill quick.

Well, GL either way. Hope things work out! :)

Anonymous2009-07-04T12:21:32Z

No, if my ex fiance wasn't a cheater, I would have married the jerk. They are some of the best lovers of the zodiac. They are far from boring. Dated another one briefly, again, I enjoyed it while it lasted. I love men of that sign, provided that they are the loyal ones.

My mother and best friend are also Virgos, you'd be surprised by how much energy they really have once you get to know them, but of course, it takes time to truly know an earth sign. They ARE fun :)

Deenie2009-07-03T13:26:05Z

I'm a Gemini and was married to a Virgo...it was awful.
My granddaughter is going with a 37 yr old..and she's 21... so this worries me.
Good to hear from you .

_____2009-07-02T20:19:07Z

wow!,, i'm aquarius=]and yes Virgo signs are very serious.no ofense virgos,,i went out with a virgo and i broke up with him because he was to boring and serious around me..i like funny and exciting,,well aquarius is air sign and is mainly compatible with )libra,gemini,aquarius,,and fire signs ,leo,aries,saggitarius..

virgo is earth signn,,not a very good match for aquarius neither are taurus,capricorn,cancer,piscis,scorpio very good matches for aquarius

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