Do rape victims have a moral obligation to report a rape?
I'm sure it is hard to try to seek justice on such an issue, but it is illegal so there is a criminal in the streets. Should she act in the name of justice or of society?
2009-07-20T07:52:35Z
Perhaps it would be different if reporting didn't necessarily mean pressing charges or offering evidence which could lead to a second victimization.
2009-07-20T08:00:33Z
"yes - but the obligation does not outweigh the victim's right to mental sanity." That is wise advice M.
2009-07-20T08:02:23Z
I mistrust the system as you do 'Jennifer W' but aren't you defeated beforehand?
2009-07-21T11:34:26Z
Sorry 'Nima', but an eye for an eye in public? Do you mean you would feel somehow compensated if you saw your rapist being raped? Wouldn't that fall under the category of pleasure?
2009-07-23T07:56:21Z
You are an asshole handyman!
Anonymous2009-07-19T18:19:15Z
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Many rapes are almost impossible to prove esp. in the case of date rape. If you've willingly had sex w/the person before then many people would simply say you weren't raped. That was my case. I had been dating him for a few months. btw I never reported it. I was far too scared and felt like nobody would believe me. *sigh*
I do wish I had reported it. I wasn't the only one he raped.
Logically, yes all rapes should be reported in order to put the criminal in jail, but w/the reality is that women and men who are raped are often victimized a second time by the justice system. I admire the people who do press charges and get the jerk tossed in jail.
No, I don't think so, any more than a robbery victim or a victim of other crimes has a 'moral' obligation, although obviously this is something many people who are raped struggle with.
IMHO, the argument that reporting crimes such as rape helps police catch the rapist sounds civic minded, but how realistic is it?
Many rapists aren't caught, many others are never charged because of lack of evidence which would be conclusive enough to convict. In other cases, the matter goes to court and the victims are treated with such ferocity that many feel raped a second time, this time by the system.
Unless we can guarantee rape victims a fairer deal in the courts and the justice system, I don't think we have a right to have 'moral' expectations around their behaviour.
My first thoughts on this, is YES, the victim should report the rapist,at least to make sure that another person does not suffer from this trauma.Especially when we understand that the core thrill that the rapist gets is that of control over the victim.By publicly coming against him, the victim gets a chance to take back that control.BUT when we think about it, when someone has suffered so greatly, the last thing they are bothered about is saving the world. The rapist might not be found in any know database, so whats the point in reporting them? More over the victim has to relive the agony of retelling their traumatic experience over & over again.For what??? My thoughts are that the victim has to undergo extensive counseling & should try & understand that they are in no way responsible to what happened to them.
Personally I think such crimes should be publicly punished, respecting the victims confidentiality of course & the punishment should be an eye for an eye. This I think would discourage any one with an inclination towards rape.
yes - but the obligation does not outweigh the victim's right to mental sanity.
sexual abuse is something that does not always feel better right after telling - and in many cases, the act of reliving it can make it worse.
rape can sometimes be very difficult to prove, and the process of trying to prove that such an injustice has been done can feel like a further victimisation.
after being raped, the first obligation she has is to herself.
i'm not saying she shouldn't tell, but she just might need some time.
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