What does it mean to "date" when you're an incoming freshman? like what do you do with your boyfriend?
i need help fast. i just got asked out but don't really know what it means to date as this is the first time...thanks! 10 points!!
i need help fast. i just got asked out but don't really know what it means to date as this is the first time...thanks! 10 points!!
Eva
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If it's anything like it was when I was a freshman, all you'll do is hold hands and watch movies together. Maybe a stray kiss here and there, but I wouldn't push things. Your friends might joke about things and tease you, but trust me--it'll blow over. Focus on having fun together and enjoying each other's company! Just be happy spending time with someone you care about. Even if things don't work out, chances are you'll make a good friends of your 'date'.
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The word "Date" in high school is different than the "date" for when you are much older and graduated. It just means you are boyfriend and girlfriend thats all. You CAN go out on dates if you want, like going out and doing something just the two of you.
anti-gatsss
depends on what type of morals and rules you have
but either way, you guys should, hang out with each other, hold hands/hug/kiss, and somehow stay in contact with him so its not just a physical thing and ur connecting on a deeper level
i know ppl who are having sex and ppl who havnt done more than just a quick kiss, but this is when most people start aiming for 2nd or 3rd base depending on their dating history. most ppl i know have been at 3rd or are aiming at 3rd by now(but im a lil older than u).
im not saying go and have sex, cuz even i think were too young for it, but its not wrong to do more than simple kissing or hugging.
overall, i just think it depends on how close and comfortable you are to ur bf
hope that helped :]
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It really depends. When I was a freshman, dating someone was just basic: not seeing anybody else, hanging out together, all that stuff. Sexually wise, that's when everybody started going for 3rd base.
Bryn
I've realized that dating in high school means saying you are with someone and hanging out with them alone.
It's not really complex.
It's just like, seeing movies, going over to his house...just doing stuff together...