Help! Confused about two guys!? ):?

There's two guys that I started to like and I don't want to go back and forth. Who should I continue crushing on and who should I just forget about?

#1:
I liked him for two years already. He found out last year and got a girlfriend to purposely make me jealous/mad. But he broke up with her during Summer Vacation. When I see him I melt into a puddle and my heart beats like crazy just like the way he plays drums. <3 He doesn't talk to me anymore but everytime he seems me looking at him he smiles and stares into my eyes the way that makes me feel this lovey kind of feeling and I feel really happy. And I always want to see him and crazy about just getting him to look at me. But if we ever somehow got together all the girls would hate me because he's popular. (But I liked him before he became popular.) My friends think he's weird in a funny way.

#2:
I just started liking him about a month ago. He always walks me to my classes holding my hand and waits for me after my classes. He also acts like we are bf/gf. He also talks to me a lot. When I'm around him my legs feel like jelly and my arms go numb and I feel all happy and cheery. But he barely ever looks me in the eyes. :( But sometimes I want to avoid him because he's EVERYWHERE. He's one of those kids that you'd see in a small group of weird friends but he has a lot of popular friends. My friends think he's weird in a creepy way.

So who should I just continue crushing on and who should I just throw out of my mind of forget about them? I'm tired of having to go back and forth.\

#1 is hard to get over because he affected my life so much and his smile is like a magnet to my heart. Just keeps pulling me in.
#2 is also hard because he's everywhere and he's really nice to me. Nicer than any guy has ever been to me.

Anonymous2009-10-18T21:38:11Z

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i say number 2 just cause he seems more into you.
then again i'm pretty biased because i kinda feel that i can kinda relate to guy #2.
your choice

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Anonymous2009-10-18T21:33:42Z

2

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Anonymous2016-05-22T22:56:57Z

Maybe you really do just like him as a friend and are getting your feelings mixed up because of your confusion. You're looking at the bigger picture. The point is that being with your friend isn't a risk because you understand his priorities. Your boyfriend on the other hand, is a risk. But are you willing to take the risk in order to satisfy your feelings? I think you already know the answer. Or you already know where you're gonna go with this. Most people can't drop their feelings (if they're that strong) over the prospect of an insecure future. Some people do, but most people can't. And honestly you never know. Maybe your guy will turn out to be the kind of guy you need. Do you wanna give up what you guys have just "in case" he doesn't? Well good luck with whatever you choose, hope it works out for you!

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Dieter2009-10-18T21:34:46Z

I'd suggest neither, young one.

Obsession over being unnoticed is unhealthy, and guy #1 has provided you with the hint that you're not good enough for him, or that he is better than you in some way. So that relationship would likely not last long and you'd end up getting screwed (in two different ways depending on your age)

Guy #2 seems to obsessive over you, and would probably get into things too deeply too fast. If you find yourself annoyed with him on any level now, you definately want to avoid a relationship

Dont set your heart on things, try not to get crushes or specifically like someone. Go out on dates with different guys and eventually you'l find yourself in a good steady relationship. Either way, have fun and live your life without worrying about another human too much.

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Antigone2009-10-18T21:40:05Z

Oh i have the same problem: going back and forth between two crushes. But you know what I'll go for # 2 if you wanna take it seriously. Cause in my case, my #1 is the popular guy as well who i think will just fool around or just wants to have my attention

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