Help! Confused about two guys!? ):?

i say number 2 just cause he seems more into you.

then again i'm pretty biased because i kinda feel that i can kinda relate to guy #2.

your choice

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Maybe you really do just like him as a friend and are getting your feelings mixed up because of your confusion. You're looking at the bigger picture. The point is that being with your friend isn't a risk because you understand his priorities. Your boyfriend on the other hand, is a risk. But are you willing to take the risk in order to satisfy your feelings? I think you already know the answer. Or you already know where you're gonna go with this. Most people can't drop their feelings (if they're that strong) over the prospect of an insecure future. Some people do, but most people can't. And honestly you never know. Maybe your guy will turn out to be the kind of guy you need. Do you wanna give up what you guys have just "in case" he doesn't? Well good luck with whatever you choose, hope it works out for you!

I'd suggest neither, young one.

Obsession over being unnoticed is unhealthy, and guy #1 has provided you with the hint that you're not good enough for him, or that he is better than you in some way. So that relationship would likely not last long and you'd end up getting screwed (in two different ways depending on your age)

Guy #2 seems to obsessive over you, and would probably get into things too deeply too fast. If you find yourself annoyed with him on any level now, you definately want to avoid a relationship

Dont set your heart on things, try not to get crushes or specifically like someone. Go out on dates with different guys and eventually you'l find yourself in a good steady relationship. Either way, have fun and live your life without worrying about another human too much.

Oh i have the same problem: going back and forth between two crushes. But you know what I'll go for # 2 if you wanna take it seriously. Cause in my case, my #1 is the popular guy as well who i think will just fool around or just wants to have my attention

There is an old saying that says. 4 eyes see better than 2 and if you're being told by your friends that he is creepy in a sort a bad way, I would stay away from him and maybe try to make something about #1 and make him your #1.

i'm a 16 year old guy(straight) so this will either be really weird or just weird, i'm not going to tell you who to choose because i'll feel very uncomfortable telling anyone what guy they should like but what i will tell you is going to make my choice kind of obvious, what i do know is that most high school guys just want one thing from girls and in my opinion if a guy is trying to make you jealous by dating another girl he's playing games which is really immature and that takes me back to what i said before about immature guys and what they all want. if you're in high school and you find a nice person in high school, youve pretty much found gold. so there, it's obvious what my decision is.....................

I think you should make a smart choice and follow your heart. I don't know your type but you should wanna be with someone that's going to make you happy and I MEAN REALLY HAPPY. I cant choose for you and know its hard to choose between the two but you have to make a decision and soon. Be wise and don't worry yourself....love nessa!

don't give up on #1. u won't even be able to give ur heart to anyone else if u don't get over him, which means going all out once and for all.

commit to making a move on him and if it fails then ur officially over him. then u can go with #2.

but it sounds like u'd be happiest if #1 went out with u. though his chances of liking u arent good, ull only get over him by getting rejected by him, which comes by making a move.

the first one you seem to have known him for a long time. the second one you just started. the first guy doesn't talk to you anymore but see if he wants to be with you. if he doesn't go for the second guy if he does...see which one you like as a friend and not as a friend.