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Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsSingles & Dating · 6 days ago

Does he want to see me again?

Me and this guy had been talking for a few weeks and I decided to finally meet him the other night. We are from the same hometown, but had never officially met. We finally met and had some drinks, played some pool, and we had so much fun. We hit it off right away, laughed a lot, and just had a really great time together. We ended up spending the whole night with each other and we had sex a couple times. The next morning we were still having fun with each other and I felt really good about everything and he was cuddling me and making me laugh the whole time until we parted ways. After we said bye to eachother, he ended up texting me all day. He also texted me yesterday most of the day and he was still calling me "love" and told me he would like to see me again soon. But today he didn't text me at all and now I really like him, I can't tell if he truly wants to see me and hang out with me again. Is he over it now after having sex or does he still want to see me again sometime? Im just confused now because he isn't texting me all of a sudden even though he was texting me constantly after our date. 

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  • ?
    Lv 4
    6 days ago

    I think you need to make an attempt to put in some effort to see if he wants to hang out again. Send him a text message saying along the lines of so when are we going to hang out again. Maybe instead of getting some drinks and going to the bedroom, you can go on an actual date. You need to test this. If he refers to just getting drinks and going to the bedroom again, that is a take sign he is just using you. Maybe you can make a suggestion to go somewhere , or just ask him when he is available again. 

  • Anonymous
    6 days ago

    Yes, he's over it now that you had sex with him because you made it way too easy.  He texted you to keep his options open for more sex not because he's serious about you.

    Guy are only serious about girls who respect themselves and their bodies and take their time to really get to know someone before they ever consider having sex with them.

    There's only two types of women that exist for guys...the ones they use for sex and the ones they marry.

     

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