this statement is for all women beat and abused.?

one of my contacts wanted to know how to cover up bruises that she
required from her husband/ boy friend had put on her. after care full
consideration and thought. i told her not to cover the scares let ever
one see. we spend billions of dollars trying to find a cure for cancer
and other diseases. when the number one killer comes from a man
abusing his wife/girl friend. she not only has to wear the scars and
bruises. she has to wear the abuse that is stored away in her brain
for the rest of her life. there is know excuse what so ever for a man
beating a woman mentally are physically. some women say well i
did this and i did that. that still don't give any man the wright to hurt
you.some say well he is going to get help for this. ladies tell him good
luck with this pack your bags and be on your way. and wish him the
best. because while he is getting help you will be at risk of getting
hurt are killed. it's time for all women in America to stand up and say
i have had enough of your abuse im not going to take it any more. and
walk away have him arrested and make sure you do ever thing to insure that it don't happen to some one else. when there arrested they
will be made to get some form of help which is really not enough. but
it will help you to know he is being punished for his crime.be strong you don't half to stand alone. there is help out there go and get it. your
friend Michael Knight.

Nanny Nana2009-10-28T14:54:52Z

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Hi...no, I wouldn't cover up the bruises either but if she has a job or is ashamed....well she should. I DID NOT cover my bruises and cuts or hide the injuries that this f*ck*ng monster gave me. I was not only hurt physically, but was screwed up for many years after. I stayed, while people told me to leave.....then i was in the position where nobody was around to help me. He took me out of the province, against my will and we lived in an 8 by 16 trailor. He was so cruel and I was near giving up. My thought were 'I'm gonna die anyways'. He tried to kill me several times and there was nobody to witness any of it. I left one day after he told me he was going to shoot me. He was drinking and you know what? He would have. When I was free from him the first few days, I couldn't believe how people treated me. They were treating me normal, but it was so wonderful because I wasn't used to being treated like a human being. Not being hit or yelled at was like heaven. Your friends partner is getting help. That's good for the next girl that he meets....poor thing. In the meanwhile, help your friend get away from this man. He will kill her in time, if she stays with him. It's a very tough situation. Good luck on this one....

Jennifer Rush~UK and Ireland2009-10-28T21:19:35Z

Why just the women in America? This happens to women all over the World. I know because I myself was subjected to physical abuse and my husband is now locked up after me reporting the matter to the Police.

Anonymous2009-10-28T18:42:35Z

Best tool against abuse is 911. As soon as the argument begins dial it and hang up. Police will be there before the first act of violence. Hang up 911 calls are known to police as signals of domestic abuse.

Kylie tremper2009-10-28T22:42:58Z

If she needs to go somewhere put on color-stay makeup by Revlon its the best for full coverage. But yes she needs to put him in jail. If she needs help it might be harder for her but can get help from the police. My husband hit me during postpartum and I thought it was okay because he made me feel crazy and I thought it would never go away. But now its effecting alot more then anyone can imagine.