So my gfs old bf and her had sex and everything. And now I am going out with her for about a month and a half. And recently (like 3 weeks ago) he walked to her while she was walking around the block and he kissed her and one thing led to another and they had sex so she cheated in the worst way on me.
I really do like her, but what should I do?
madmommy
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well that sucks really bad but to tell you the truth i would dump her bc she wouldn't of cheated on you if she really cared about you. i know that hurts to hear but she cheated on you find sum one that will treat you with respect and that will love you
Denese
She cheated? She had sex with another man? Apparently she doesn't feel the same way you do about her. I think when she cheated that tells you exactly how she feels about you and the relationship you have with each other.
Andie
It's a personal decision, but honestly if she isn't going to respect your relationship by cheating on you with her ex... well you should let her go. You always can try to work it out, but first she needs to work out her own issues. Honestly, I think she may not be over her ex so she needs to figure that out first.
My guy friend says this: "Buy her a pack of snuggie condoms and tell her to quit being a skank."
Personally, I don't think you should listen to him.
Good luck.
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You said it yourself, she cheated in the worst way, and you like her.
If you love her, it might be a different story, but you said you like her. It's not worth it if you just like her. She cheated on you, and that's not okay. If you forgive her , your basically saying that its okay and it might happen again. You don't deserve to be cheated on.
If you think you can work it out, then try, but personally, I would break up with her.
haberdashery
Its apparent she's not over her ex.
I understand you really like her but you need to dump her.
You don't know if they are having protected sex, do you really want to take that risk? No. You don't. So dump her. Move on. Find a girl who isn't still having sex with her ex.
Good luck.