i want 2 find my mom i have no money i need help?
she left me wen i was 7 and iam 20 i want 2 find her so bad can u help were do i look?
she left me wen i was 7 and iam 20 i want 2 find her so bad can u help were do i look?
mommiesmyname
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My advice is to not find her. Any woman that can leave her child at age 7 is not worth finding! I know that it is natural to try to get the love that we seek from the woman that bore us, but unfortunately this isn't what happens most of the time. I met the woman that gave me up and I never got the love that I had expected from her, infact, I got more pain and rejection from her! There is no way to change these people either--no amount of loved that you give her will ever change her. All I know is that I would rather be sliced into a million pieces, slowly, with a rusty paring knife than EVER make a child go through the pain of rejection. Good luck and please try counseling--don't waste your life looking for her!
Anonymous
Save yourself the disappointment. If she wanted to be a mom, she never would have left her son. She'll only continue to hurt you by not accepting you. So leave it alone. That's what she wants.
She only gave birth to you. She's not your mother.
fanny ethyl
look on your birth certificate. it should say who your mother is.
other than that i think there is people you can hire to find that stuff out.
MrsRed
Forget about her. If she wanted to be found, she would be. She is not your mom, she is an egg donor.