Why do people keep saying that I'm not bisexual?

I hear this from both LGBT people and straight people.

I've done things with a girl, I'm deeply in love with a girl right now. I've had for feelings for girls since I was 11. (I am female)

2010-01-27T23:34:08Z

lol I'm 24

2010-01-27T23:34:25Z

thanks i heart u

2010-01-27T23:35:48Z

Rock. Makes sense. : )
I know what you mean and I come from a big city, and have to interact w/ a lot of ppl. I let a LOT slide off of me, but it's a problem when your friends don't believe you. How can you form a strong friendship if trust isn't there?
That's what I'm getting at : )
my best friends know and accept it.

and no dear, you're not being rude : )

2010-01-27T23:36:11Z

I am bisexual

2010-01-27T23:37:04Z

thx Alias lol, it's not that it bothers me...it bothers me the full trust isn't there.

2010-01-27T23:37:24Z

Bouve: LMAO ok??

2010-01-27T23:37:45Z

Late: so many good answers

2010-01-27T23:39:01Z

No, Kerie : ) w/ friends I mention boys. I have dated guys

2010-01-27T23:39:30Z

Red Doll: they're my friends...but NOT my best friends. (my friends think about sex a lot)

2010-01-27T23:40:04Z

KIA: ohhhhh thank you

RockSPMT2010-01-27T22:27:46Z

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Not to be rude, but why do you let what other people say, bother you? You are your own person and clearly have your own ways of thinking, so just let it flow.

However, to answer your question, DO you identify as bisexual? If you are a female, and are in love with a female, but also have no differentiation when it comes to loving a male, then you are bisexual. I won't go into my own personal opinion of bisexuals, but hey, you are what you are...so be proud. Knowing what you are and standing strong in your convictions is 3/4 the battle....the rest is left up to your actions of how you stand up for yourself (if you so choose to do so).

Just be yourself and be proud of who that someone is :)

Kia2010-01-27T22:32:24Z

They do that to me too. Just ignore them honey. They are big into the hate bi's. Straight people have this thing where they are more unsettled by people going both ways and can accept a gay more than a bi because they are predictable or something stupid. LGBT people have the same sort of deal going on but it is more to the side of that we just can't make up our minds. They both think you can't be both.
It's really annoying.

Jesse2010-01-27T22:27:26Z

Well if you like both guys and girls, then that's you and you can tell everyone else to buzz off. It's dumb how people don't find it believable, but that's just because they don't feel the same thing you do.

Kerie K2010-01-27T22:29:43Z

I thought to be bi you are attracted to both male and female people. So you didn't mention any boys in your post .... maybe they say that because you're acting more like a lesbian?

Anonymous2010-01-27T22:28:12Z

They can think whatever they want, alright if they don't believe you thats too bad.
As long as you know and you're sure then everything perfect.
You don't have to prove to them or make them believe you and of course they can't tell you who you're!

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