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Why do people keep saying that I'm not bisexual?

I hear this from both LGBT people and straight people.

I've done things with a girl, I'm deeply in love with a girl right now. I've had for feelings for girls since I was 11. (I am female)

Update:

lol I'm 24

Update 2:

thanks i heart u

Update 3:

Rock. Makes sense. : )

I know what you mean and I come from a big city, and have to interact w/ a lot of ppl. I let a LOT slide off of me, but it's a problem when your friends don't believe you. How can you form a strong friendship if trust isn't there?

That's what I'm getting at : )

my best friends know and accept it.

and no dear, you're not being rude : )

Update 4:

I am bisexual

Update 5:

thx Alias lol, it's not that it bothers me...it bothers me the full trust isn't there.

Update 6:

Bouve: LMAO ok??

Update 7:

Late: so many good answers

Update 8:

No, Kerie : ) w/ friends I mention boys. I have dated guys

Update 9:

Red Doll: they're my friends...but NOT my best friends. (my friends think about sex a lot)

Update 10:

KIA: ohhhhh thank you

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Not to be rude, but why do you let what other people say, bother you? You are your own person and clearly have your own ways of thinking, so just let it flow.

    However, to answer your question, DO you identify as bisexual? If you are a female, and are in love with a female, but also have no differentiation when it comes to loving a male, then you are bisexual. I won't go into my own personal opinion of bisexuals, but hey, you are what you are...so be proud. Knowing what you are and standing strong in your convictions is 3/4 the battle....the rest is left up to your actions of how you stand up for yourself (if you so choose to do so).

    Just be yourself and be proud of who that someone is :)

  • 1 decade ago

    They do that to me too. Just ignore them honey. They are big into the hate bi's. Straight people have this thing where they are more unsettled by people going both ways and can accept a gay more than a bi because they are predictable or something stupid. LGBT people have the same sort of deal going on but it is more to the side of that we just can't make up our minds. They both think you can't be both.

    It's really annoying.

  • Jesse
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    Well if you like both guys and girls, then that's you and you can tell everyone else to buzz off. It's dumb how people don't find it believable, but that's just because they don't feel the same thing you do.

  • 1 decade ago

    I thought to be bi you are attracted to both male and female people. So you didn't mention any boys in your post .... maybe they say that because you're acting more like a lesbian?

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    They can think whatever they want, alright if they don't believe you thats too bad.

    As long as you know and you're sure then everything perfect.

    You don't have to prove to them or make them believe you and of course they can't tell you who you're!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Why are these other people so concerned with your sex life? It's none of their business.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Ok i believe you.

  • 1 decade ago

    well I'm going to tell you - you are bisexual. Does that make you happy? You shouldnt care about wat they tell u what u are and what u are not.

  • 1 decade ago

    You might be a lesbo.

    ...You're definitely a lesbo.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    cuz you're a kid and your hormones are amok so 'deciding' this now is extremely premature.

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