I wonder how many have a wonderful long-distance loving relationship, as I do.?
I am in love with a wonderful woman that is creative, vibrant, beautiful, loving, attentive and makes me fulfilled. We met 7 months ago on Answers. Now we enjoy each other on the internet, every day. She fulfills my life in every way but one.....
We take imaginary trips around the world together using the net for detail of the trip and live a wonderful dream together. Do others enjoy the depth that we share? I wonder.
Anthony
coldrain2010-01-28T08:59:35Z
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Few Long-distance relationships ever work out. The reason for that is since you two cannot see each other, your brain will fill the gap with a lot of imagination which can make you happy. Of course, in your mind, your loved one is perfect or very close to it, but sooner or later you have to face the reality which often leads to disappointment.
You have to love the real her, not the false image you created in your head. I suggest you take some real trips instead. The thing about dream is you will have to wake up sooner or later.
I met someone on the net once, we had a great great time. I actually saw her as a good friend, someone to rely on. It really felt good, and indeed, she fulfilled my life also.
After quite a few months she decided to come to me (almost 6 hours by train) and we enjoyed it as much as over the internet. We are still together and talking, we see eachother once in a whole (like once every few months). And I tell you what, I am happier with her over the internet, than with some friends I have here.
I have before. I have to warn you; unless you are both in a place in your lives where meeting is a legitimate possibility, I wouldn't get too devoted. Once you realize that the physical part of your lives is lacking, it's very hard to make up for it with anything other than the real deal. If you and your internet partner are unable to establish that kind of connection, I don't know how long you can last.
I'm in the same kind of situation. We have a wonderful relationship, expect for one missing link in our relationship. The man in my life is caring, loving and patient. He fascinates me and captivates me daily.
I think what you have, many people wish they had in the lives. There are some people who do not have this in "real" life. You should do whatever it takes to preserve this special romance.