What does it take to be a good horseman and trainer?

Ok folks, as expected on here and almost all the other horse sites there is a very wide range of opinons on who's the best trainers, horsemen or women and what is the best methods to get it done with.. This question is not about who or what is better.. It about what you think it takes to be one. Below is my take on it and kinda the code I try to live up to in becoming a good horseman. What are your thoughts.. Smokie
The keys to being a good horseman and trainer…

Not long ago my apprentice ask me the question… “ What is the most important thing you can teach me to become a good trainer and horseman?” It took some thought, soul searching, and recollection of the things I’ve learned over the years to give her an answer but here goes...

Through the years, I’ve come to realize that the keys to being good with horses does not lie entirely in the sums of acquired knowledge of training principals, or the tutelage received from the all knowing masters of horse training. The keys to obtaining the level of wisdom and to truly be one with the horse come from the deepest darkest parts of your soul and your experiences in life. It is how you see, interact, and judge, your self, your horse, and others, against the perceived realities of the world around you. And how you manage the turmoil within yourself. This is how the horse will see you, respond, and work, (or not work) for you.

Horses are remarkable creatures in that they can look into the eyes of you, “The predator” and instantly know if they can trust you with their life. They will not prejudge or hold a grudge if they cannot. They will willingly accept you as the leader if you have their respect and their confidence as the protector of the herd, their life, and their existence on this earth.

People that have not had or lived through a profound life changing or emotional experience and know the true meaning of what life is all about, cannot become true horsemen. If you do not know, or haven’t seen your life for how truly simple it is, and cannot give a part yourself, or your knowledge, without judgment, for the betterment of the others in the heard, you cannot appreciate or comprehend what it takes to really know the horse.

I’ve talked with horseman and women that truly have a gift with horses. Virtually all are at peace with themselves and all creatures, including the rest of the bipeds. All have witnessed and faced death, the miracle of life, and they know that it all can change in an instant. One bad kick, bad argument, bad war, relationship, or decision made for some self-serving mission or concept of reality.

The horse is one with his herd and his environment. He will do his part to continue his existence and that of his species. It’s a simple forgiving life. The horse has no concept of human emotions. He knows nothing about love, revenge, hate, time, responsibility, perfection, prejudice, or production. He knows only two… The only two perfect unchanging concepts of emotion and human reality, living and dieing. These two concepts manifest themselves in the horse as “forgiveness and fear”. Trainers or horse people that base their training on other human concepts will not succeed in training or horsemanship. If they cannot accept and let go of their distrust, anger, jealousy, control, and preconceived ideas of life, love, sacrifice, time, and how we live life on this earth, they will never know or experience a true willing partnership with the horse or the humans in their lives.




Learn to forgive yourself, your horse, and others for their imperfections. Do not fear yesterday or tomorrow. Or get balled up over those things that you cannot change, were unsuccessful, needs more work, or simply forgotten. Just be patient, and live for today, the best way you can. Be in harmony with yourself, your horse, and the others you share your life with. Have no regrets, and expect no more in return.

Trust the horse and the human to give the same of him as he sees in you and your lives will be better for it…

Then you will be on your way to becoming a horseman. At peace with yourself, your herd, and the world we live in… like your horse.

I’m not a true horseman yet but I work on it every day and I hope this helps you along the way.

2010-01-28T19:45:48Z

So Marianne, does finding the fault in a persons riding abilities or how he was improperly trained and ranting about it also spill over to finding fault in an improperly trained horse and going off on him too? I don't think your getting it...
Perhaps you can't put what it takes to be good with horses into words, but you sure can describe in words the human traits that will make you a poor horseman. If any of you are taking this too hard or have a problem with it feel free to drop me an e mail. I'm not hiding behind a screen name and claiming to be the all knowing guru.. Just trying to give you a little in site as to how your emotions will ultimately effect how your horse will see you and react to it. And that folks is learning from experience too. And I've learned a lot about the people on here in the last few days too.

2010-01-28T19:57:01Z

Thank you Ziggy and I very much enjoyed reading your response! This forum can use your wisdom!

2010-01-29T14:35:27Z

Thanks Buffy! Good answer!

Ziggy2010-01-28T19:20:21Z

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Ahh Smokie, I like reading your answers. I believe you are a good and kind horseman from what I read ;-)

Your comment about profound life changing experiences interests me. I think I have always been a kind handler and the big TB's always responded very well to the "little person". One of my twins had a brain haemorrhage when she was 3 months old and is now profoundly disabled. For a few days they did not know if she would live and in the next month we saw many people in hospital who did not take their babies home. It is an experience that has changed my husband and I, we now have a tolerance we never knew could exist. That was 6 years ago, every day we have is a gift, that nearly got taken away. So I believe your theory ;-)

So.. on with my theory... It is not enough to see someone do something and just copy it, you need to know the reason/theory behind the method. Every horse is different and not every method works for every horse. I often come across a horse and remember something that one of my older mentors has said. I often ask "why" to people, what is someone's reasoning for doing something or doing it different to me. Often they will have a valid point or theory that I have not thought of.

It pays to listen to all sorts of people, farriers, vets, older experienced people etc. Listen to their stories, you might come across something in future and try one of their methods. It costs nothing to listen and learn, even if the lesson is NOT to do what they did ;-) My great grandfather was a cattleman from the high country here in Australia, I still love to listen to my grandmother talk about her experiences.

Horses don't have our human emotions as such, they will not sit in the paddock and think about being naughty. They respond to you each day according to how you treat them and how they feel. Many people give their horse emotions and wrongly think they are doing something to get back at them. LOL

I think people try to over compensate, to make their horse like them better. Giving a horse treats does not make them like you more, it makes them think you are a walking pez dispenser (as I heard someone else say and loved it. LOL). Horses are not trained the same way dogs are. The best treat for horses is a nice rub. Horses respond to the herd leader, that is "us". They need to respect you or they will walk all over you.

If you fuss and baby them or show nervousness, they will pick up on this immediately. You gain his respect by being calm, consistent, firm and fair (this does not mean hitting). I am very matter of fact with my horses, I talk to them and natter away all the time, but I don't respond or react to silly things that they do. I just go about my business. I believe in avoidance, don't let a horse exhibit bad behaviour and THEN make a big fuss about it.

I was riding track work one morning and made a comment to another jockey, about how good someone was to stay on a particular horse who was playing up. That fellow was a great jockey and he said "it does not take a good rider to SIT on a horse who is playing up, it takes a good rider to not let them play up in the first place". I practice that in everything I do in life.

To me attitude makes all the difference, positive attitude will help you get further and achieve things quicker. I don't see people as being BETTER than me, I see them as more experienced or experienced in a different area to me. I then see them as a big training tool and pick their brain until they are sick of me ;-)

I have been with horses all my life, but I don't consider myself an expert on anything. Horse people learn all the time and EVERY new horse I come into contact with teaches me something. You only know as much, as your horses have taught you. They are marvellous creatures and they respond differently to different people. If you put on a fake front they see through you pretty quickly. If you be yourself, chances are horse's will enjoy your company, give you confidence and teach you heaps.

I believe a basic key to training and learning is, to work on something and be doing it really well before you move to the next thing. Too many people rush themselves or skip the ground work that is truly training a horse. A bit of extra time and hard work at this end, is what makes it all worth while at the other end, despite how boring some people think that is ;-) Half the fun is the journey!

Anyone can take a good, well educated horse and turn it into a disrespectful and difficult animal, if they don't handle them correctly. In my opinion it is a continuing process, for the entire time you work with the horse. Any behaviour or training faults will ultimately lie with "us" the human. We have the responsibility to make them a good horse in the first place ;-)

Good question Smokie!

Anonymous2010-01-29T11:08:00Z

Here are the things I think make a good horseman/trainer:

Most importantly, the horses are healthy, sane and sound. They are worked at a level appropriate for their abilities and are matched with appropriate riders. Horses and riders are successful in their discipline and have clear cut goals for future learning. All creatures in the barn, human and equine, are treated with respect. Safety is treated seriously and dangerous situations are avoided. Foreign opinions are treated with respect and new learning opportunities are implemented when appropriate. Ethical behavior is more important than results.

These some of the qualities I see in the equine professionals I look up to and respect. I have no use whatsoever for people who abuse their animals, disrespect their students, put performance over safety and refuse to believe that there is anything to be learned from others.

Anonymous2016-02-27T04:46:20Z

You have gotten a lot of good advice, you can pick pieces of each response and build a program that works for you. I particularily like what Ghost said. I'll add my two cents worth. Get out of the arena, and work in a pasture if you can. Place your horse into a lope, and the second he begins to speed up or just generally not be collected, stop, back a few steps, roll over his hocks, and canter off again. I sometimes use a 180 roll, and take the opposite lead, or do a 360 and practice the same lead again. This several benefits: it stops the forward steam that your horse seems to be gathering (which is why I don't like circles or run him till he is tired), collects him and rocks him back onto his hocks, AND keeps him on his toes. Also, you are not holding onto his mouth, except for as long as it takes to perform the manuever, then throw the reins to him again. You are teaching the horse to hold his speed and frame on his own which is necessary for WP. I dont' get to ride as regularily as I should, either, but a few of these roll backs, and I can feel my paint gelding rock back beautifully. If you are not in a pasture, you can do this in circles with in the arena, on the rail, or even out on a trail. Some people like to let their horses relax on the trail though.

Anonymous2010-01-28T13:42:26Z

Trust yourself

Learn to forgive your faults, do not beat yourself up over mistakes, learn from them and then move on

It does not matter if your a man or woman, both can be great horse trainers, riders and teachers...

You have to be able to read your horse, don't second guess them, watch their movements, the temperament, and most of all how they respond to you.

A gentle hand will get it done best, harsh training methods do not go down well with me, it is the gentle, kind hand, soft touch as I call it, and you will get better results than brow beating the horse to death...

Take criticism well and learn from it.....don't get upset if another experienced rider offers tips to help you, apply them if you think the source is good, if not, then listen and decide on your own.

Good luck

Forward is Your Friend2010-01-28T13:29:43Z

Amen!

Wonderful, I enjoyed reading this!

I quote you, "Learn to forgive yourself, your horse, and others for their imperfections."

This is one of the best things I have learned from horses. Almost everything I have learned with horses I can apply to the rest of my life. Its funny actually because I was just explaining learning to forgive to someone the other day. You just made my day in a weird way.

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