Okay so Ive know this girl for about 5 months now and she has always had a boyfriend (2 different ones) and she is really sad about this one dumping her over text...So should I just try and go out with her now or wait like 2 weeks?? I know she thinks im attractive. Her life hasnt been going good for her lately either, and Id like to help her out :) but there is another girl that I think is soooooooo pretty ahhh...but I never talk to her, I know she thinks im attractive too. And if I go out with the other girl I think she might get jealous :/
ALSO what would you girls think If some cute guy went up to you and ask you to dance without music???
matt2010-02-22T18:06:15Z
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with the first girl, dont be too pushy about it. just be there for her and be a friend, and as for the second one, just start talking to her
well, judging by how she's all messed up in her relationships (two boyfriends at the same time) she might say yes and just use you to cheer up and then dump you. I'd say that's a bit of a gray area. But if you really think she's that attractive and you don't mind what happens later then yep you're right 2 maybe 3 weeks and your golden.
the other one will probably get jealous, but if you guys don't talk she'll get over you and move on and you'll never have that chance again... which would suck if she actually is that pretty :L
You gotta decide which girl you like more. because if you go for one your gonna miss out on the other.
the dancing thing: I personally think that would be really cute xP but some girls would be like.. wtf?? i guess it depends on how you pull it off - like if you're a really funny not awkward guy you're golden with that. But if you come of cheesy it's game over.
I think you should probably ask her out after a few more weeks.. you don't know exactly how she's feeling, and if her last relationship was something that was going on for a long time, then she might be really sensitive/depressed about the breakup. Since you see her at school, just hang around her a bit to make sure she's feeling a little more comfortable around you and what has happened to her already, then it might be alright to ask her out. If you really like her, then give her a chance rather than this other girl who you never talk to but think is pretty.. Also, about the dance thing, I would say no. Awkward. Why would I want to suddenly dance with some guy, (despite the fact I would be thinking he was cute) without music? Pretty pointless, and weird, in my opinion. Hope this helped.
If you started a relationship with this recently dumped girl it would most likely make her feel better, but she might only be into as a rebound relationship that won't last long.
Also, if it was sweet and I knew the guy I don't think it's all that weird without music. (Unless you're talking about grinding or dirty dancing in silence, that's not cute)