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Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsSingles & Dating · 1 decade ago

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Okay so Ive know this girl for about 5 months now and she has always had a boyfriend (2 different ones) and she is really sad about this one dumping her over text...So should I just try and go out with her now or wait like 2 weeks?? I know she thinks im attractive. Her life hasnt been going good for her lately either, and Id like to help her out :)

but there is another girl that I think is soooooooo pretty ahhh...but I never talk to her, I know she thinks im attractive too. And if I go out with the other girl I think she might get jealous :/

ALSO what would you girls think If some cute guy went up to you and ask you to dance without music???

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  • 1 decade ago
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    with the first girl, dont be too pushy about it. just be there for her and be a friend, and as for the second one, just start talking to her

  • 6 years ago

    well, judging by how she's all messed up in her relationships (two boyfriends at the same time) she might say yes and just use you to cheer up and then dump you.

    I'd say that's a bit of a gray area.

    But if you really think she's that attractive and you don't mind what happens later then yep you're right 2 maybe 3 weeks and your golden.

    the other one will probably get jealous, but if you guys don't talk she'll get over you and move on and you'll never have that chance again... which would suck if she actually is that pretty :L

    You gotta decide which girl you like more. because if you go for one your gonna miss out on the other.

    the dancing thing: I personally think that would be really cute xP but some girls would be like.. wtf?? i guess it depends on how you pull it off - like if you're a really funny not awkward guy you're golden with that. But if you come of cheesy it's game over.

    Hope i could help :P

  • b
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    I think you should probably ask her out after a few more weeks.. you don't know exactly how she's feeling, and if her last relationship was something that was going on for a long time, then she might be really sensitive/depressed about the breakup. Since you see her at school, just hang around her a bit to make sure she's feeling a little more comfortable around you and what has happened to her already, then it might be alright to ask her out. If you really like her, then give her a chance rather than this other girl who you never talk to but think is pretty..

    Also, about the dance thing, I would say no. Awkward. Why would I want to suddenly dance with some guy, (despite the fact I would be thinking he was cute) without music? Pretty pointless, and weird, in my opinion. Hope this helped.

  • 7 years ago

    If you started a relationship with this recently dumped girl it would most likely make her feel better, but she might only be into as a rebound relationship that won't last long.

    Also, if it was sweet and I knew the guy I don't think it's all that weird without music. (Unless you're talking about grinding or dirty dancing in silence, that's not cute)

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  • Wendy
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    5 years ago

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I would definetly ask out the one that has no issues like the one you like soooooooooooooooo much

    get to know her better, before you decide who you want to ask out. As far as asking someone to dance without music that so kooooool and romantic yessssssssssss and at night under the stars

    you might even get lucky and get lots of hugs and a great kiss. Enjoy :).

  • 1 decade ago

    I think you should wait a little bit. shes really upset and sensitive right now so she would probably say no. be patient and give her some time to get over it. and if she would say yes if you asked her out right away, it's possible you're just a rebound and you wouldn't feel to good about that. also i would be totally weirded out because i hate cheesy stuff but thats just me. but it also might freak any other girl out...

  • 1 decade ago

    SHE WILL SAY NO IF U ASK HER OUT RITE AWAY SO GIVE A COUPLE OF MONTHS AND THEN IF YALL ARE REALLY GOOD FRIENDS SHE WILL SAY YES SO GIVE SOME TIME AND SPACE BEFORE YOU DO THIS AND A BOUT THE SECOND GIRL SHE IS PRETTY RIGHT SO PRETTY DOESNT MATTE ITS WHATS ON THE INSIDE SO IF SHE IS ATTRACTIVE JUST TALK TO HER AND THEN MAYBE SHE WILL START TO LIKE YOU BECOME FRIENDS FIRST AND TEN SHE MIGHT SAY YES GOOD LUCK DUDE I DON'T KNOW

  • 7 years ago

    Matt is right here,

    for the first girl - be there for her as she needs someone as a friend but right now not a lover

    and for the second girl - like Matt said TALK TO HER, as u don't know her that well and she could be a total nice babe or a total ***** babe

  • 7 years ago

    If a guy asked me to dance without music, I'd like that :D Because people don't do things like that. It's intriguing...it's interesting.

  • 8 years ago

    Pick one girl . And don't go based of their looks because I'd you just go with her cuz she's hot their wont be an emotional connection . And give the first girl time before you jump it since she just got out of a relationship . Just let whoever you choose know that you care

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